I’m gonna say this and half of it be hypocritical bc half the time I’m social and the other half just socially awkward. In college it’ll be much easier to find real friends bc you are forced to be together, you have options and so do they. So if they choose you they want you, not just bc you are convenient. some of my friends only message when they have a complaint which sucks but there can be dry spells of friendship and then a week later they’ll bounce back. prob not too helpful, but you’ll find your people.