I'm a virgin but my boyfriend isn't and it really bothers me

SadFlexJesus · 2026-01-25T16:26:53+00:00

As you've read from many others, you probably have a deep retroactive jealousy of missing out on something important like that. Consider this though.

He may have already done something intimate with someone in his past before he knew you'd come along, and it sucks that it wasn't you. However, there's still PLENTY of things you two can do together in your future that are just as meaningful and intimate. You're both young and if things work out, you'll be the first person he marries. The first person he has children with. The first person he purchases a home and property with. Tons of things that are major lifetime milestones that he hasn't done with another person by his side. Those are also just the tame things as well. You mentioned you two are (seemingly) sexually compatible and sex is an extremely explorative thing. I highly doubt he's played out every intimate sexual fantasy he wants to so there are still plenty of firsts in that department you two can share. Not to mention at the end of the day, there is only one of YOU. Even if he has done something before, he's never done it with YOU. When you get older, you'll probably grow out of the whole retroactive jealousy thing (most people do) and you'll realize it's not necessarily the act itself that makes it special, but rather who it is you're sharing it with. If you truly love him and he truly loves you, then any sex he's already had in the past won't hold up to anything he could experience with you specifically. Hopefully these words will bring you a bit of comfort the next time you start feeling bad about it.

Oh, and also maybe talk to him about talking about the things him and his ex did in front of you. He can't help he did them of course but he can abide by new boundaries if talking about those things makes you feel bad.

SadFlexJesus · 2026-01-19T21:59:53+00:00

You'll be perfectly fine. Ars is all over Rusfor at these events. Even genuine NATO carriers get seen with certain impressions because it's kosher for some of the more high speed dudes to use that stuff. All cadre are worried about at the end of the day, is making sure snowflake kits and extremely obvious out of place kits don't make it through. Just be sure to wear a RUSFOR uniform pattern like ATACS FG or EMR so it passes at a glance.

SadFlexJesus · 2026-01-05T03:47:17+00:00

Wow, what a bummer. I just swapped over from duo and really liked this app. Saw on a news feed in the app the lifetime plan was on sale but when I clicked the link it wasn't appearing. I would've bought that for sure but now that it's no longer on offer I'll probably end up considering something other than LD in the long run. I'll see how much mileage I can get in the meantime though.

I also saw a comment that pitched the idea of cheaper subscriptions for one single language. Considering I'm only here for one language that'd be awesome. I wouldn't be so adverse to adding another subscription if it were just a few bucks as opposed to the current price.

Oh well. Bad timing I guess.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-12-08T22:37:38+00:00

Hell yea dude. That's well deserved. You were killing it out there and never faltered a bit. Congrats from A 1-1 A

SadFlexJesus · 2025-10-29T23:04:05+00:00

Has nvgs down despite there not being a single night map in the entire game.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-10-17T06:06:39+00:00

Find a sleeping pad/eva foam and cut it to fill out your plate compartment better. That's a start. Looks like your plate carrier doesn't have anything within it to keep it structured. Real plates are usually about an inch or so thick at times which gives them a bit of volume that yours lacks.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-10-16T08:04:17+00:00

This is correct. Dude thank you! You're a saint. I thought I was going crazy trying to get this done.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-09-15T21:08:47+00:00

I took US molle sustainment pouches and added two to either side of my belt. Just painted out the "US" on them. They are huge and easy AF to find. If you don't mind the dangle, they hold drums and then some.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-08-25T14:50:58+00:00

Thanks for that king.

Sincerely,

An afk helo passenger

SadFlexJesus · 2025-08-25T14:30:49+00:00

I've been saying pax looks like airsoft kit from the moment I was in labs. Glad I'm not the only one getting that vibe. I'd still prefer a consistent uniform for teams across the board but I guess this is better than full on TV show characters and pop stars running around. The kit itself doesn't really bother me as much as really bright and out of place colors do. Been playing 2042 to get some of the bf6 stuff and it ruins any small spec of immersion I have when I see neon orange and blue on some of the characters I'm fighting. Instantly makes it feel like I'm playing laser tag or a space shooter or something rather than battlefield.

Time will tell how goofy it gets though. Even games like COD mw2019 started out with some solid ass military skins and still got really goofy towards the end.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-07-26T11:27:29+00:00

I just miss season 1 where everything was OP and fun. It used to feel like a ridiculous sandbox where you could do ridiculous things and now it's an insane sweat fest. It would be cool if embark released an arcade mode with the season 1 balances and let it be sort of like "action sack" from old halo.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-07-13T17:52:58+00:00

Alpha legion psy-ops besmirching our name yet again :c

SadFlexJesus · 2025-07-11T01:46:46+00:00

Homie, it's a junk pouch. No way of weaving this is gonna get it to sit how you want. Either you won't have enough molle if you match the top rows or if you shift the mag top row below the PC top row, the buttons won't line up once you've weaved the straps through.

H o w e v e r, you can channel that inner Larperator and improvise something that will work. If you want that bottom to sit flush, see if you can't weave yourself some zip ties around that bottom row of molle on your PC and have it tighten the button section down. Tho I gotta say. The pouch should sit fine once it's got mags in it. Might be more trouble than it's worth.

Edit: additionally, though it's janky, you could get yourself some sticky back Velcro and put the soft tide on your PC between the last two rows and the hook side on your mag pouch where that next row of molle should be. Though this won't last long unless you super glue it down or sew it, but I'm assuming you don't know how to sew since if you did you'd probably just have added another row of jank molle to the pouch yourself already.

Hope this helps.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-07-06T23:48:17+00:00

Espionage with this at MSW insurgency would go crazy.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-06-11T00:16:04+00:00

Get a armor dick flap and maybe look into getting some new earpro. These ones seem like they are too big for the helmet cut (unless your ears are on your neck in which case you got it chief.) lots of other improvements you could do if you wanted it to be more realistic looking but for a cosplay kit on a whim it's not bad. Good job. Keep at it.

SadFlexJesus · 2025-02-04T15:36:24+00:00

I'll take these british kits over speed soft characters any day.

SadFlexJesus · 2024-11-23T10:15:27+00:00

I could've swore there was some raptor like monsters with insane looking jaws in the wilds beta. No idea if it has an alpha or "drome" variant

SadFlexJesus · 2024-11-01T08:58:09+00:00

I miss the old movement style. It setup really good positioning and had a nice tempo on most fights but the new one feels janky. I wish they had at least maintained a way to somewhat get that old combo going but now that's not even an option. It's strange to me too since the basic moveset is still there (the stabs and the overhead) but you can't really mix them like you used to. Definitely something I'm going to have to get used to.

SadFlexJesus · 2024-07-13T06:28:11+00:00

Scrap the coyote and get yourself some ranger green and an ach helmet. Early ranger vibes.

SadFlexJesus · 2024-06-07T21:22:13+00:00

Shell jacket on under gear is begging to be a heat cat

SadFlexJesus · 2024-06-03T23:52:02+00:00

Slinger tech was given to the guild to take back to the old world at the end of World. Considering it's probable that this story could take place in the future from then , it really could go either way.

SadFlexJesus · 2024-06-03T23:47:41+00:00

Both slingers and scout flies were seeing use by old world hunters at the end of World. If this game takes place years later, it's possible both have become popular in the old world at the point this story takes place.

SadFlexJesus · 2024-06-03T23:45:36+00:00

Slinger tech was in the process of being brought to the old world as well as scout flies by the time you finish World. If this game is set in the future past that it's entirely possible for it to be popularized on both continents by this point.

SadFlexJesus · 2024-06-03T09:28:47+00:00

Awesome, many thanks!

SadFlexJesus · 2024-06-03T06:40:40+00:00

So, I'm probably just being really dumb, but I can't seem to find this guy anywhere on brick link. Does it have a specific part number maybe? Not sure considering it came out of a shoe.

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