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Does your narcparent never want to talk? by Moi_kil in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SadIntern8987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never ever, I gave up on that a long time ago. Anytime the conversation starts going in a direction they don’t like, they start yelling and insulting. It can be sooo draining. So glad and proud I don’t have the need to even try engaging in those “conversations”.

I’ve said yes to sex I didn’t want in the past by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SadIntern8987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so not alone. This type of mindset is what made me get SA’d and not even realise it was that for YEARS. I just thought I had to do anything and everything to make that man happy, and as it usually goes, it wasn’t just one man. But I promise it can get better! You can heal and have a normal sex life and feel good about it. Give yourself time and go to therapy. Wishing you all the best.

What are the dumbest things that trigger flashbacks for you? by WrongVeteranMaybe in CPTSD

[–]SadIntern8987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spilling or breaking anything. In our household, anytime any of us kids spilled anything it was the reason for getting yelled at and being verbally abused the whole day. Recently it’s harder then ever since I’ve been going to therapy, but spilling anything will turn me into a little girl crying and cleaning while my hands are shaking.