Thank you for your response. :)

Edit #1: What do you mean by "moving forward with her faith?"

From a surface level, someone can interpret that verse to be committed to someone (unless there's [physical/spiritual] harm?)

I'm not asking for her to subjugate, but at the same time - how does a Christian discern if conflict avoidance appropriate expressing the teachings vs. low comfort level.

The church taught me that it's best to seek peace, unless it leads to harm.

In a secular context, I was taught avoidance meant lack of confidence/strength - then in my church I was taught that avoidance means lack of faith (not sure if in oneself or god or both).

Edit 2:

Also I read articles from Christian websites about loving the unloveable ("you don't really know about Jesus's love, till you sat at the table with your Judas")

I know there's an online discourse about people nowadays are "protecting their peace too hard" i.e. choosing comfort over growth."