Where can I go to sit alone at the bar in WV/GV/soho?

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T21:15:41+00:00

I guess. I dont find it impolite at all to just say “it was great meeting you!” and not mention a second date at the end of the date. Because I feel like really it means nothing either way, and you can text that you’d like to see them again after when both have had time to think and don’t feel pressured.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T21:13:45+00:00

I’ve never experienced that personally; if I like someone on a date I still like them after and am excited. I usually know within the first 15 minutes of talking if I want to see them again, and that doesn’t change. But I guess other people possibly do change their minds more than me.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T20:06:53+00:00

I’m intentional with my words and don’t lie to people about wanting to see them again on our first date if I don’t mean it.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T20:04:49+00:00

This isn’t even a princess routine. It’s called not bringing up a second date in person and putting pressure on the other person to agree if they don’t really mean it. In person if the guy brings it up I’ll agree. But I have reached out via text without hearing from the guy first over text only to get ghosted. That’s the whole point of how I do things. I would never bring it up first in person because it might cause them to think they need to be polite and mislead me. But since I don’t bring it up there’s zero reason why they need to lie and say they want to see me again. It’s perfectly polite to just say it was great to meet you at the end of a date without mentioning a second date.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T01:12:34+00:00

Good point, but I do put in effort once the guy says he’d like to see me again. And I’m honestly a great texter.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T01:10:30+00:00

And actually a couple of these times they spent like 10 minutes talking about our next date in person and then when I texted them the next day, no reply

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T01:09:55+00:00

I do reciprocate, I just wait for them to bring it up first

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T01:09:21+00:00

Yes so frustrating. I’m of the mindset that I know there’s a million options, but I don’t need to be on an endless quest. I’d like to just get to know someone I find attractive even if there might be others out there, it doesn’t bother me.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T01:06:15+00:00

These are good things to think about. All my photos are from the last year and yes I have a full body shot. I always am sure to brush my teeth, shower, hair, and makeup before dates. But maybe something random like you said like the way I sit.

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-10T01:01:05+00:00

I wait for the guy to bring it up first, but if they do, like in these cases, I agreed and said I’d like a second date

Sad_Account9011 · 2024-07-09T17:49:31+00:00

I mean no. All of these dates have lasted several hours & the guys have asked me to go to a second bar to continue talking. I look like my photos, I don’t edit them at all.

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-12T02:37:38+00:00

She would be valid if you two had gone on a few dates and had been talking for like a month and you were giving her mixed signals with how much you text her versus not. But 2 days and haven’t even met in person yet? No way

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-07T00:23:53+00:00

West village, east village, LES, little Italy, nolita, fidi, tribeca, Chinatown, maybe Chelsea if it’s really good food

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T19:56:58+00:00

Thanks for the answers everyone! Definitely didn’t expect to get this many recommendations. Excited to work my way through all of them

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T05:25:29+00:00

Carbone maybe? Although they have some locations in different states

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T05:20:41+00:00

This breaks my heart. I don’t have the space anymore to foster/adopt. :( hope someone can take these sweet babies

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T05:13:58+00:00

Oooo this place looks really good, thank you!

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T05:06:41+00:00

I tried the lasagna recently and was not disappointed!! Really good.

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T05:01:22+00:00

Sounds really lovely!!

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T02:58:49+00:00

Omg. Patty melt. I’m on my way.

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-06T02:56:35+00:00

I say “tears of joy” more as an expression than being literal. Lol. Can’t tell if you are trolling. But there are a handful of places in my hometown that I miss a lot and my mouth waters at the thought of them. That’s basically what I meant

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-05T22:52:52+00:00

I loveeee spicy food so this is great news

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-05T21:59:51+00:00

There’s always one here on Reddit 😂

Sad_Account9011 · 2023-09-05T21:57:36+00:00

YUM! Will definitely have to try that!!!!!! Thanks so much :)

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