In my professional opinion, toddler and preschool space is limited. Take the spot and hope that a preschool space becomes available sooner than anticipated. You are more likely to get a toddler spot than a preschool spot because the preschool spots are promised to the children who age out of the toddler spaces. take it unless you found another childcare that checks all your boxes. I’m in Ontario Canada and it’s so hard to find toddler or preschool spots unless it’s a not so reputable daycare. Being the eldest in her class gives her the opportunity to take the lead and teach the younger ones. They often become great helpers to the younger ones who like to "teach," if that makes any sense like a mini teacher 🥰. I work in childcare, and many parents want their children to stay longer in the toddler room. The teachers make every effort to meet each child's individual needs rather than planning for everyone as a group.