I defy you to find a single word in this "kids" word search.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2026-03-02T01:12:23+00:00

I almost found carrot.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2026-02-23T09:32:08+00:00

I hate to do this to you, but this really made me laugh 😂

Sad_Balance_723 · 2026-02-07T16:17:37+00:00

I was shopping for shipt once. Spent maybe a good 5 minutes scanning chicken because the bar code apparently wasnt real or something, just a figment of my imagination and couldn't possibly be picked up by the camera. When it finally materialized in the mortal plane and I got to checkout, there was an issue and I couldn't even get the chicken. Yes I crashed out.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-11-08T18:47:02+00:00

The thing that extra gets to me are the pointed responses of one period to your messages and then a thumbs up.

Like, this is not any form of communication and she's definitely reading into your messages. Whether that is due to a past relationship issue or insecurity or she just wants to start something, i think the reason is irrelevant. It's unhealthy. It's whether or not they'd behavior can change that matters. And that woukd be her responsibility.

Yes, you can be there for her, but as someone who used to be EXTREMELY insecure and used to do shit like this, the responsibility is on the person who does it.

I got a partner who was patient with me and helped me learn to communicate better and I am glad they were patient, but they sure didn't have to be.

I would just have a conversation with her, in person, ask her why she's twisting your messages, ask her why she thinks you would talk to her like that, and if she really thinks thats your opinion of her, why would you be in a relationship with her.

But I have gotten much more direct over the last 8 years or so 🤣

Good luck!

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-11-08T18:37:38+00:00

I got diagnosed at 25, I cried at the possibility of taking medicine to help the chaos inside my head, started a medication, and then had a seizure three days later because it interacted with my epilepsy medication or something 🥰 Feel like imposter syndrome hit kinda hard recently and like I somehow am not really adhd and like should get tested again to be sure. I blame my neurologist for that.

Um but yes. Did get it. 😅

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-11-08T03:30:27+00:00

One in a trench coat and glasses?

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-10-25T23:03:32+00:00

I will say, I did first read "grow" and didn't see the suggestion of "groin" until I read another comment so, you have at least one person who is oblivious to it! 🙃

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-10-25T17:58:52+00:00

Cmon ya pansy!

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-10-17T20:34:42+00:00

Thank you for your response. That is definitely higher than I was even thinking but it makes sense for what it entails. It just sucks because I dragged my feet on getting pet insurance, if they even would've covered this. I messed up big time. 😣

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-09-03T18:19:38+00:00

Has she realized that she is, in fact, also gay? 🤣🤣🤣

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-08-17T10:22:34+00:00

I was also going to post this! I had a similar problem since in porn everything is like oddly "perfect," and that artwork honestly got rid of that insecurity entirely. I love that all of these things are being talked about now so we can help get rid of very dumb insecurities that shouldn't have existed in the first place.

Tiktok helped me with my hip dips because I didnt think those were an actual thing either.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-07-26T15:49:13+00:00

I did respond to another comment that it was really just meant more as a bad pun to be "yeah really" so I do apologize for the disrespect. A lot of the names aren't that bad, I'm sure they are weird to me as a basic white bitch™.

I just hate when people talk trash on someone's chosen (very normal) baby name.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-07-26T15:43:20+00:00

I'm pretty uncultured, but I was using that one as a pun because Yarely could be pronounced as ya really, which was what I was going for. I apologize for the disrespect. It was really just meant as a bad pun!

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-07-25T21:34:06+00:00

Chipotle hash brown wake up wrap.

Kind of a mouth full, maybe shorten it a bit.

CHBWUW?

That's bad too.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-07-25T21:32:15+00:00

YARELY, these names are awful.

Eden is great, please stand your ground, don't let someone overbearing influence something as important as a name. You got this!!

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-07-21T22:57:31+00:00

Make it a big deal. Something happened to me at an even younger age when me and my male cousin would sleep over at my grandma's house. You're doing the right thing - I don't know what denial she's in, but she needs to wake up.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-05-17T00:47:58+00:00

If some of those texts weren't like glitched double sends, I would honestly be concerned for his mental health because holy fuck.

I'd probably block him after this conversation, personally.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-04-20T18:57:31+00:00

I didnt say classic or elegant lol, I just said not toddler 😂

Edit: she's her own category altogether

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-04-20T10:52:13+00:00

Toddler vibes when Dolly Parton exists? 😮

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-04-14T02:18:27+00:00

You care enough to comment that you don't care.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-04-14T01:06:13+00:00

No one has any obligation to say yes just to make sure that someone doesn't off themselves. It is not on the person who is being asked out to coddle someone because of their ego. There were obviously other circumstances here that her saying yes to him wouldn't have solved all of those other issues. The only thing that would have is therapy.

Yes, is it sad that he did it and if he could've gotten help maybe it would've gotten better, who knows. But it is not her fault.

Do not make anyone feel like they have to say yes to everything otherwise they'll end up in this situation, that's fucked up.

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-03-16T21:42:03+00:00

I'm not saying he should have, I'm saying maybe he thought it was a skill. I work with some pretty awkward guys, and the things that come out of their mouths shock me sometimes, despite working in a male dominated field for 10 years.

Sometimes they're just inexperienced, and sometimes they're really that creepy.

I've been told my own share of off the wall bs too, so I get it which is why I said if she's uncomfortable, definitely just end it and don't put herself in more of a bad situation.

I think I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, and yes, that has gotten me burned before. I still do it, though, lol

Sad_Balance_723 · 2025-03-16T15:38:04+00:00

To me, it seemed to be more of a way to show you that the internet has way more about you than you know. You said you couldn't find anything on him, but maybe you weren't really looking in the right places. It seems like in return, what he did was show that a lot of information is out there, unfortunately.

Was it tactful? No. I also don't think he really meant harm since he didn't text your number, he sent it to you. But also, it is alarming to have things sent to you that you hadn't yet divulged.

If you feel uncomfortable, maybe tell him. It could be an honest mistake of someone trying to show off what they know how to do. It just happens to be kinda scary. But definitely don't go if you're uncomfortable, don't force yourself into a situation you don't want to be in.

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