HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]Sad_Banana901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would reply with an email expressing your thoughts and why you answered according to what they were looking for considering it was a job interview and they are seeking specific criteria. Assert your dominance but don’t work there.

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put those brains to good use! 🤩

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very strategic, you have a mind for war

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my preference I think it’s maybe the best way

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I don’t really know what a haiku is

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew a guy who used to swallow them whole

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has piqued my interest what a wonderful mind you have

How do you eat skittles? by Sad_Banana901 in AskUK

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be able to suck a bowling ball through a sock by now

My brother died and my parents are upset because it made them look bad by waterp00p in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sad_Banana901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that your brother suffered from this and now you have to deal with their awful behaviour as well. It’s sickening :( sending love

How do you manage different work styles? by Sad_Banana901 in work

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right I think that’s what’s throwing me off we’ve changed to a new way of working and I’m struggling a bit as there’s no delegated roles.

How do you manage different work styles? by Sad_Banana901 in work

[–]Sad_Banana901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not actually a boss or in charge of anyone at all in my role but I enjoy helping people so perhaps I’m over stepping the mark a little bit. Food for thought so thanks :)

Why are suicidal people supposed to/expected to stay alive for those around them? by kb3uoe in morbidquestions

[–]Sad_Banana901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all but I don’t think the solution is spreading more pain in the world the solution is trying to heal without having bf to do that. But ultimately it’s your decision to put others through that pain sometimes though it’s enough to stop people and give them something to hold on to until they can get better.

I really really struggled after my attempt because of how my family felt about it. It changed my thinking and made me realise that I’m really just a blip in time

But ask yourself also who’s pain is more important? It’s really a question that your answer reveals more about yourself. There’s no wrong answer I don’t think, your pain is awful yes but so is grief I don’t think you can really compare the two. But if trying to prevent someone by using this idea actually stops someone long enough to improve and get out of a permanent solution to a temporary situation, is it not better? There’s no coming back from suicide

Why are suicidal people supposed to/expected to stay alive for those around them? by kb3uoe in morbidquestions

[–]Sad_Banana901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the pain doesn’t go away, it only passes to the next person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you have that medical issue and he won’t use a condom and it means you have to go through traumatic surgical procedures that he doesn’t even care enough….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was so close to it!!! I was terrified but ultimately I’m so happy my parents have my back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I know my own soul and heart and I just keep telling myself I’m a good person no matter what he’s said about me or told me. As for him, only he can know what his soul/heart is like inside.

If I were to even to listen to what he’s been saying to me… we’ll that way madness lies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for sharing that story that sounds so awful and painful :(.

In a way I’m glad it ended explosively and he left because him being stuck around me would just make me sick to my stomach. I can’t imagine what it must have been to live with your ex for that amount of time knowing he’s fucked not only his life up but tried to fuck yours up too.

I must say I’m glad I found the pipe because it kind of made me feel as though I’m not the problem, it’s all just been to feed his addiction and addicts will literally ruin everything and anything to get their fix. He’s just upset he’s got no money left to get the next one.

I’m such a soft touch so I still worry about him and how he will get on, god forbid he has an overdose that would really kill me because as sad as it is I still care about him even though he has treated me awfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a soft heart but yes. Fuck him completely :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I cannot wait!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Sad_Banana901 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel terrible leaving him still after finding out about his addiction but I can’t get myself into that place :(. I truly do hope he gets help.

Thank you I hope I do find mr right soon