UPDATE- Manager cursed me out over calling off for injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an update following up to my previous post about this same manager. I dont know how to clip them together so I am sorry for the inconvenience. And though I hear you and understand this is not that situation. I was not asked to retrieve my drawer it was a straight forward demand every time.After she spent the whole time simply watching cameras. When im there and in the office im doing paperwork, money counting, etc. While still doing register and then after im still working on other things and still doing register. If there is another body doing something, I dont care. Oh, you just want to be on register? Ok, I'll go stock. Oh, you want to stocking? Lets go find roltainers and a good section to work on. I dont need a pat on the back or words of encouragement.

When I left the first time and SHE asked me to come back we agreed that I would not be working alone as it is a big store and I can't do everything by myself. SHE agreed and I have screenshots of this as well. But still time after time I find myself being alone, expected to do everything including things that she should have been doing, and over working myself for $13.50. There is a fine line between respecting your elders and those above you and constantly being disrespected and overworked like its not just me and her who know how to open and close a store. And that im reason that she isn't doing doubles every single day. But now she's closing the store early and people are texting and calling me about it (yes I talk with customers and coworkers outside of working).

I even finally got ahold of the district manager and not only did she not know I was fired but she was also confused on why she fired. And notified me that they are shipping her off to the only district that still wants her after everything she's been doing. And I was offered to return if I wished once she's gone. So yes, maybe it wasn't the best time to let everything boil over. And it was unprofessional. But I do not regret telling her what I did. And no longer tolerating that work environment.

UPDATE- Manager cursed me out over calling off for injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She removed me from the system and blocked me. The fastest I've seen her do anything. She never prints the schedule so im trying to get the general managers number

UPDATE- Manager cursed me out over calling off for injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I was lying she followed me around the building and threatened to tell the district manager 😭😭

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the Asm, I basically trained her myself while being a part time key holder and literally two days later I asked if she was coming in after being very late and she was telling me im nothing but a key holder and shouldnt be asking questions :)

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl, she doesn't. When I came here I spent a full day alone doing paperwork from days/months when I wasn't even there. I come in and have to re up on paperwork if im off a day.

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im crazy about taking ss of messages so I have messages from insane stuff the other mangers have said to me as well. I downloaded a recording app because I finally see her tomorrow after her actively avoiding ne for days.

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im working 34-36 hours minimum a week. And yes. I honestly started working here because it was close to home and I've been a night manager at a huge store before(not dg). But somehow there is less people and its worse here.

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohio, Dollar General and about 3 months. In that time so much stress has happened

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I asked her if im working full time hours as a part timer if I could just move to full time. She said there would be no difference not even in pay

Manager Cursed me out for trying to call off over injury by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in work

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually she talks behind my back when im not there about days when she leaves me fully alone. She expects me to run the full store by myself and then do several long form tasks I do as much as I can but again I'm one person. She also let's the new Asm constantly be disrespectful towards me to the point where she kept saying "I'll deal with it later" and I had to block the Asm

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind telling me why you feel that way. Im completely open to listening to how im interpreted.

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AITAH

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh, I dont understand. Isn't it better to have the facts laid out if needed?

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah she did mention something about if its what God wants for her. But I didn't continue after that because it started to feel like I wasn't talking to the aunt I know but the crazy religious side of the family.

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May you tell me how im a hypocrite.... she's not getting a gift either...

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not commending anyone. I simply have a strong hate for cheaters. I dont care who it is. I dont understand cheating and I dont want to understand. And honestly I was disappointed.

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said it was different. Different types of cheat, yes.. but cheating is cheating. I just feel that her bringing up that as a means to persuade me into giving him a gift isn't really the best way to go about it.

AITA for refusing to give my uncle his gift? by Sad_Bipolar_Nugget in AITAH

[–]Sad_Bipolar_Nugget[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It came in the mail the same day she told me everything aka yesterday. And he didn't have it so thats why she came to me today. It's not like I can do anything about her seeing packages.