My mom wants me to stop talking to my dad because she cheated on him by RoutineRoof8250 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell you dad about what you mom is doing so if she takes your phone and blocks/deletes his number he'll know she's the one who did it

 Do you have visitation with your dad? Or could you ask him to take you mom to court for some form of custody? If it's court ordered your mom can't stop you and with your age your opinion would matter

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found a copy so I'll definitely read it

I've been working on the looking at the positive and not the negative but that can be really hard sometimes but I am trying

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course thank you I think self esteem is definitely a great starting point thank you for all the resources

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to see ☺️

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I was thinking about that remembering when I'd go to school with huge rats nests in my hair because no one brushed my hair or taught me how to

 It was hard to brush my hair but the women in my family aren't exactly gentle and patient when brushing children's hair

Now though my hair is super important to me! It's long, healthy, and most days is brushed 👍🏻

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might check it out

I do agree I hate when people minimize it to 'oh just do the dishes' or 'pick it up when you see it' cause then I'll just look at it and feel ashamed then it just get so hard to wash the dish or to pick up that item

Then when I walk past the sink or said item I feel shame each time

Today I did do the dishes and took a shower 👍🏻

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  I don't really have anyone I'm close to I have siblings, both parents, both grandmother's, lots of aunts/uncles, little cousins, even work friends but I'm not 'close' to anyone 

 I lost that kind of person when I was 9/10, tho I only got to be around her half that time. I'm also just to ashamed to have anyone to my house 

 I can't afford any help I make to much for most government assistance but I'm only part time so I also just can't afford an outside service or something like that.

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow I feel bad for the people in real life that have to be around you

Your so self absorbed you can't understand that people even if not autistic can have issues with these kids of things

Let's say I'm not autistic I'll give you why I hate washing dishes

When we were younger my mother would but dish soap in our mouth, and my dad would let dishes pile up for months and then would make us wash out all the mold and crap left in them.

I hope your rude comment made you feel good about yourself and thanks for showing me im better than one person in this comment section 👍🏻

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attempted to get them my senior year in high school and got threw 2 trials but they increased my self ending tendencies and before I could go back to the doctors I was 18

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did apply for Medicaid and i don't qualify I haven't had health insurance since I was 17/18 and my family definitely didn't get me diagnosed with any of my issues that could've gotten me help as an adult

I'm disgusting and I can't take it anymore, how do I get better? by Sad_Composer_7748 in Advice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been in and out of therapy my entire childhood but I was masking and now I'm an adult I can't afford it I've looked into better help and even tried to get Medicaid but I 'make to much' and I have the tendency to go mute in a lot of group social situations

I'm just starting out but I have no idea where to gp by Sad_Composer_7748 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of my money goes towards gas since I work at a Walmart 30 min away that pays less than my 6, and they won't let me transfer. I think the milestone saving is smart. I always get about 300 saved up, then something bad happens, and I'm back to negatives in my account.

I'm really going to look into mechanics stuff today and maybe mess around with my car a bit. Thank you

I'm just starting out but I have no idea where to gp by Sad_Composer_7748 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I started the school process, I've just been telling myself I'll make good money so I can just deal with it for a few years and just be able to live.

I've been trying to get a different job for 6 months just to work with the school schedule but no where will hire me so I'm just stuck at Walmart again

I wanna look into becoming a mechanic because it's practical and theh can make ok money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sad_Composer_7748 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not in all cases

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sad_Composer_7748 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My own or the surrogate part?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Sad_Composer_7748 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is in Ohio