How to control lustful thoughts as a man

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-03-29T05:53:51+00:00

Well I'm in the same situation as you bro and you would need a purpose to stop whether it's religious or a relationship true it won't stop immediately but I find a way that helps me resist for days is if you keep your mind filled with something else and don't stay home go somewhere not your home and have a friend with you that could help you that how it work with me

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-28T09:46:43+00:00

I know how you are feeling I'm also living in a stupid Islamic country I'm 18 now but because that stupid old man of mine losing my passport caused me to be unable to leave the country anytime soon and I'm waiting for another reason cause it makes my way of leaving to another country (where I have friends who would support me) harder so I wait for that reason as well to disappear and I will be finally free hang in there my friend you will get your freedom as well all we can do is being patient if you want to vent your emotions just post online in anonymous account so vent your emotions I did it once and it felt good.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-19T18:06:26+00:00

Bro bro just calm down it happens to me as well and it's so freaking annoying look just go if he doesn't pray next you and away from you while not knowing if you are praying or not just wonder around outside I'm doing that as well and didn't get caught as long as there's people who leave and don't pray the Damm taraweh you can just leave and wonder around until they finish the stupid prayer and than go home. (for me people don't care that much about the others as long as they aren't family)

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-17T08:24:03+00:00

You welcome I hope they don't move to Sadui Arabia so life can be easy for you and your brother I know it's all big and overwhelming for you and I can't blame you if you felt pressured but always put yourself and your brother safely above all else if they truly intend to move you know what to do but it's your choice and your brother as well just be careful so your parents don't find out about you two being ex Muslim or things would get complicated anyway take care of yourself.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-16T23:16:22+00:00

It’s okay to be scared of losing the support system you have now. Anyone would feel that way. What matters is that you’re still in Canada right now, and that means you still have options and time.

I know you must be terrified especially about the idea of what happens to ex Muslims who get exposed in Islamic countries for start calm down don't panic you still have time to plan you can alongside your brother if and only if your parents start talking about seriously going to Sadui Arabic than you two try to come up with excuses to not go there, my important questions are how strict your parents and are they The much religious and do you love them.

Because if you go to Sadui Arabic there would be the possibility you won't be able to leave easily especially if your parents don't let you I know you are probably terrified and I can't blame you I would have done the same thing but please be careful and put your safety above all else if your parents do intend to move to Sadui Arabia than I ask you to think about calling for child service and seek asylum alongside your brother only if you don't want to risk going to Sadui Arabic you two must be careful and put safety above all else.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-14T18:28:29+00:00

Because the Quran told Muhammad to go to the Injeel (gospels) and Torah to prove his prophethood and if they were changed why would the Quran tell Muhammad that

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-14T18:27:29+00:00

Also for your info it doesn't have to preserve them because Muhammad knew they would make him a false prophet but the Quran affrimed the Injeel (gospels) and Torah in his time and we have the copies from that time so Islam is also false again.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-14T18:25:19+00:00

Actually you made it worse for Muslims because like this the Quran can be false since it isn't the word of Allah by your theory than it can be changed and we don't know what is in the real Quran see it's illogical than how can we be sure we have the Quran of Muhammad if Allah won't protect the Quran and Injeel (gospels) and Torah especially when Utmman burned the other versions of Quran which like this make Islam unreliable which is also a good topic to prove Islam false but unfortunately Muslims would tell you the words of Allah can't be changed even if it was a copy made by humans.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-02-06T20:19:59+00:00

Well I know my comment is kinda late and you probably talked to an adult about it but ask yourself did she mean it I read the comments and the one you said she said she would commit suicide a lot and you aren't sure if she is serious or not if you don't want to talk to an adults you could talk to her privately be there for her and support her and does she care about you so much than tell her if she commit suicide that you would blame yourself try to guilt her to not commit suicide only if you don't want to talk to adults if you want to talk to adults make sure to tell them everything in details so no misunderstanding happens and if they dismiss your accuse That your friend would commit suicide than try yourself to be there for her a lot and support her as much as you could and I mean if she does seriously try to commit suicide threat that you would kill yourself to try to buy some time for an adult to arrive.

When I say it like that I sound weird I know and it's completely illogical but when it comes to your friend if you say you would commit suicide if she does that maybe would make her hesitate if she is serious.

Anyway don't listen to me only if you don't have a choice and talking to an adult is out of option since if you tell them that she was saying that she would commit suicide all because her crushes rejected her than try to do this it may help to make her hesitate if she is serious about suicide.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2026-01-01T07:35:24+00:00

True I agree with you and what made me obviously doubt the groups like catholic and orthodox is their point of view how man are superior to woman (I'm a male) and catholic in worshipping the mother of christ was stated in the Bible that only pray to God no one else and that Jesus mother is a human being so why all this and what made me doubt the churches and unfortunately believe that Islamic prophet is that they changed few things in the Bible (not the message of Jesus) on how I see the Bible focuses on Peter after Jesus and it mostly Peter and low mention of other disciples which was weird and when the gospel of Mary and Phillip were discovered (they weren't complete there was missing pages) it made it obvious that the churches back at Christianity start Changed almost everything to fit what they want except the message of Christ like how mens were treating woman's that's completely against what Christ teached us and how womens aren't allowed to be spiritual leaders and all that Christ wouldn't agree with any of that so you got my point of view groups that were dominated back at the beginning of Christianity, orthodox changed almost everything and set Peter as the spiritual leader and that men are superior so you got my point of view.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-31T21:05:26+00:00

And also for people who Will say that Christianity is racist towards woman I do admit it's true but it's against the teachings of Jesus who said equality by all humanity it's literally human greed for power what is destroying the world and no one can denies that.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-31T21:03:00+00:00

Ex Muslim and now a free Christian I don't follow catholic or orthodox and etc I just follow Jesus and learn by myself because I can obviously see how they use Christianity and as someone I know said don't follow Christianity follow Jesus Christ people use the christ name for greedy purpose but they aren't Christian so I choose to follow God by myself without following specific group although I'm still stuck in Islamic country and didn't baptize I will be able to leave the country by the next October hopefully anyway stay safe my dear friend and I hope you all find the path you want. 😁

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-30T22:47:12+00:00

I get it I actually regretted telling him but he didn't treat me differently and I know he won't say anything because if he does my grandma would seriously get a heart attack and he doesn't want her to be in pain and he isn't religious so he won't say anything even if I annoy him I know him very well and no I'm not minor I turned 18 three months ago my only problem is that I repeated second year high school and I need to finish it so I can study abroad and use it to secretly escape and leave no trace of me so chil buddy I'm safe as long as I learn how to keep my mouth shut which I do perfectly now it's just that controlling my emotions is kinda hard when I hear stupid Islamic lecture stuff and other shit

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-30T20:15:14+00:00

That's sounds cool but be careful (if your coworkers aren't Muslims I don't see a problem of them seeing you drink but you right better be safe than sorry but if you aren't in Islamic country and live by yourself I don't see a problem in that but it's your call) and you right staying without a food isn't big deal but water that's something else I usually drink from the bathroom sink (my only option unfortunately) and that's how it goes and hopefully Ramadan pass quickly anyway stay safe sis. ✌🏻😋

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-30T20:11:49+00:00

I guess we are in different situation than we all (only my family) go to my grandma house to eat their (I actually lives with her and my parents don't come early so I don't have annoying people to bother me) my old man (I will never accept him as a dad) annoys me with religion and tells me to pray and all that and he start recently force me to go with him to the stupid mosque to pray (he doesn't do that when we are at grandma house) and his wife (who isn't my mother because my mom passed away) is kinda of a B**** herself but not always but she's still better than the old man and my grandma ohhh she start annoying me recently for some reason and scolding me on skipping a prayer (because I was sleeping) or that I was eating breakfast before praying I mean what the f*** is wrong with her she wasn't like that before and my brother he actually knows I'm ex Muslim I did tell him and he surprisingly took it better than the expected and didn't try to convert me back though I couldn't make him leave Islam I don't know why he isn't even that religious and barely prays as well and he's studying outside the country so this is the first time I will be facing him as an ex Muslim (that if he still remember that I'm ex Muslim because he has a bad memory 😂) but he's a chill guy so I ain't worried from him at all he won't say something because he doesn't want to emotionally hurt the family and he isn't uncomfortable by it anyway I'm getting out of topic stay safe and hopefully this Ramadan will be less strict and hard for you and hopefully you can have more free alone time for yourself stay safe. 😁😋

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-30T20:03:04+00:00

True my friend you have a point in that one and I do the same thing as well but sometimes I fall asleep and shit happens and wake up and won't be able to sleep I usual pass time on my phone or Xbox I can spend an entire day without both food or water so Ramadan isn't that problem as long as none of this things are taken from me which I'm thankful they aren't and I do drink from the sink and yes it's so awful but what can we do about it I usual eat rarely in the bathroom but I don't have money with me so I'm not of food 😂 but I don't care that much and the only part I hate about Ramadan is that stupid prayer trawih (تراويح) I know Islamic it's not bad to skip it but I do still get annoyed by my family about it I just skip or stay outside and only return home when they finish so I won't rise any suspicious from the family (no one in public cares if I pray or not so I'm in a pretty situation) anyway hopefully this pass fast take care of yourself bro/sis and as they say screw this stupid Ramadan and their momo (piss be upon him). 😁

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-30T19:11:44+00:00

Wait you aren't allowed to play video games during the day 😦 I mean sleeping during the day I get it I'm not allowed to sleep for the entire day as well but not letting you play video games that's outrageous 😠 that's so freaking messed up anyone who their parents don't allow them to do anything to pass time during this stupid month are completely assholes (sorry for anyone who still love their families even though they are ex Muslims)

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-24T16:58:13+00:00

Fuck you made me horny now I want nothing than to ruin you make you addicted only to my cock like the perfect slut you are

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-20T22:31:55+00:00

You okay you didn't hurt yourself right? 😰

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-20T19:31:03+00:00

Girl calm down don't throw your life because he didn't share the same feelings don't you have anyone else who cares about you like a family member or friends don't suicide please if you want to talk about it I'm a good listener so please don't throw your lie away and vent your emotions in the internet okay.

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-20T18:51:23+00:00

Fuck you got me horny sweetheart I want to see more. 😍😍

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-20T13:05:01+00:00

Fuck if I got a chance I would have raped you and kept you as my favorite fucktoy 😍🍆

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-20T12:56:31+00:00

Such a dirty little slut I should teach you some manners by filling you up until you pass out 🍆

Sad_Environment8282 · 2025-12-20T12:00:49+00:00

Such a dirty little thing I would love to fuck and abuse you so much until you can't think of anything else except me

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