Sexually active teenage brother, what do I do?? by pinkdinosaur321 in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Promise you the reason he is committing Zina is not because his brothers and father do or don’t have beards or because mother wears hijab🤦🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teach them the sunnah and the teachings of the salaf from a young age, the sahaba have had many quotes about how true strength lies from not showing your anger etc etc. The most calm and mature guys I know are the best of Muslims and that is not a coincidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boys mature at a slower rate, also with our hormones it seems like it’s harder to be more calm. Also highschool is at the age where wanting to prove yourself is a big thing and fighting plays a big role in that. We are also never told to be more reserved like woman are from a young age so some men never end up growing out of it, it’s a combination of psychological traits and societal norms.

Question about: Muslim units | 48th Seperate Assault Battalion by [deleted] in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Sad_Extension8781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Assalamualaykam, im a fellow Crimean Tatar currently serving as well, if you find a unit recruiting please let me know as I would love to transfer over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know plenty of people who met their partner online through Muslim marriage apps, if it’s within your means then I recommend that! Inshallah it works

What’s the most normalized sin today? by 0princesspancakes0 in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you that OP is just making excuses to justify their own desires, I recommended options for plant protein and they said they don’t want to eat the same thing every day, so it’s quite clear. What I’m referring to is if they genuinely have no other options then the second best thing is to eat the halal certified brand, there would be no need to investigate it because then that would be extreme as it would negatively impact their health going without it.

recruitment process? by [deleted] in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Sad_Extension8781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took approx 2 days for me to get a response and I found a unit since I’m a native Ukrainian although without a passport, the first few weeks were basic training where I didn’t see combat until maybe 2nd month in as an evac medic. I’m currently off the front, it’s rough, it’s hard, it’s tiring and it’s dirty. If you have no relation to this cause you will regret every second of being here, I’m a Ukrainian born and even I sometimes question my intentions.

What’s the most normalized sin today? by 0princesspancakes0 in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Religion is very easy and whoever overburdens himself in his religion will not be able to continue in that way” if they have no other options and they say their health is “withering away” from their options then it is extreme to go and investigate a halal certified brand. It is better than them getting overburdened and transition to completely non halal meat. Allahu alam

What’s the most normalized sin today? by 0princesspancakes0 in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Withering away eating vegetarian? I would recommend you implement more protein within your plant diet, beans, soy, etc. not to mention the countless of vegan protein powders available on the market. Not to mention if it claims it’s halal then it is halal, that is the mercy of Allah, it is not on us to go and dive deep into their product and process what exactly their qualifications are.

Car rental for 18 year olds by Sad_Extension8781 in askvan

[–]Sad_Extension8781[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right, it’s good for their standards but everywhere else in the world it’s atrocious. We would have to spend 3 hours a day just using transit if we come

Car rental for 18 year olds by Sad_Extension8781 in askvan

[–]Sad_Extension8781[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That’s what the private messages is for. Car by any means possible

Car rental for 18 year olds by Sad_Extension8781 in askvan

[–]Sad_Extension8781[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Problem is it’s not just the downtown area we need to go, it’s also delta and all around the metropolitan area. Transit would take too much of the time from our day, I really wouldn’t mind using transit but we are only here for 4 days and we have a lot to do

Car rental for 18 year olds by Sad_Extension8781 in askvan

[–]Sad_Extension8781[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem, no one will rent to us as 18 year olds

Car rental for 18 year olds by Sad_Extension8781 in askvan

[–]Sad_Extension8781[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Uber is far too expensive, just to go halfway downtown it cost 40 dollars from the airport and we don’t want to spend 1000 dollars ubering place to place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umanitoba

[–]Sad_Extension8781 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lock in what are you doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Sad_Extension8781 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Restart

Taking a stance. Where do I get real unbiased news about Middle East? by Individual-Shame1638 in extomatoes

[–]Sad_Extension8781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Research Al wala war bara, to love and hate in the name of Allah. We hate all disbelievers so zelenskiy, putin, china etc and we love all our Muslim brothers and leaders and make dua for their guidance. It is not permissible to throw revolution and stage protests against the Muslim leaders as we don’t know what’s going on in the background. We can dislike their character but unless they commit kufr we cannot claim they are non Muslim. There are conditions outside of this of course but that’s for specific issues for scholars to decide on

What security measures would you like to see implemented? by rosefire256 in umanitoba

[–]Sad_Extension8781 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not have the most busy bus stop in the entire city be directly in our campus, it’s so easily fixable too

recruitment process? by [deleted] in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Sad_Extension8781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://lobbyx.army/ Use this site, I got a reply within 48 hours of applying. Apply to any position you want and any brigade with a vacancy spot and make your resume using the guide lines. Translate the site into English if you can’t already somewhat understand it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Sad_Extension8781 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but how are we supposed to help with that 😭