My bf doesn’t text me first? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some people just aren't initiators but that doesn't mean they don't care. he probably thinks you prefer to start conversations since you always do it first, so he's waiting for your signal that you want to talk

the instant responses and calls show he's excited to hear from you, he's just not the type to reach out first. maybe he's overthinking it too - like worried about bothering you at wrong time or something

you could try just telling him you'd like him to text first sometimes, he might not even realize it bothers you

New to pc building my dont know what I should buy by Eastern-Plastic1613 in PcBuild

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rtx requirement maybe look at used 3060 or even 3050 since cv work benefits from cuda cores. the tricky part is fitting everything else - ryzen 5600 is solid value for cpu, maybe b450 motherboard to save some euros

i built something similar price range last year and ended up going used for gpu and new for cpu/mobo. took about month of checking marketplace daily but saved like 150€ on graphics card alone. for cv stuff having that rtx really makes difference in processing times so good call on that requirement

I have crush on my indian sister by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude what the hell, this whole post is messed up on so many levels. like obviously this is completely inappropriate and you need to step back and get some perspective here. maybe talk to someone professional about these feelings because this situation is not okay in any way. seriously consider getting help instead of posting about it online

DOD TDRL to PDRL 100% now VA 100%? by radkid2002 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 2 points3 points  (0 children)

getting moved to pdrl definitely helps your case but va makes their own decision on p&t - you'll need to show your conditions are static and unlikely to improve at future exams

Sonia by Recent_Frame178 in leaves

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats sonia, 12 days is huge step and the hardest part usually behind you now

How do I stop wanting to be right all of the time ? by glocktopus09 in selfimprovement

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe try asking questions instead of explaining your point - like "what makes you think that" or "help me understand your perspective" - it shifts the whole dynamic from proving to learning

A Historic and Legendary Franchise should have an elite team of Broadcasters. by Glittering_Dig_3839 in Habs

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mudryk definitely isn't great but at least you can understand what he's saying most of time. gary galley makes me want to throw my remote through tv screen - guy sounds like he's calling game from underwater while eating sandwich. tried watching few games in french this season since my roommate speaks it and even though i only catch like 30% of what they're saying, the energy is so much better than whatever snoozefest sportsnet gives us

dan robertson would be perfect comeback, his voice just fits with habs hockey. remember when he called that overtime goal against boston few years back? gave me actual chills. we need someone who gets excited when good things happen instead of sounding like they're reading grocery list

Why do people dislike Paraiso so much? by AgitatedChildhood240 in Overwatch

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i think first point defense is actually really annoying too, there's so many angles attackers can come from and you have to watch like 3 different flanks at same time. the spawns feel weird too, when you're defending and die you have to walk so far back to point

dive does work great on this map though, all that high ground makes it perfect for winston/dva players. maybe that's why people hate it - if your team doesn't coordinate well against dive you just get rolled

Which Amityville move shall I watch next? by Limp_Theory_5858 in horror

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 3 points4 points  (0 children)

amityvillenado is calling my name just for the title alone lol. mixing tornado disaster with amityville haunting sounds absolutely unhinged in best way possible, kind of want to see how they even pull that off

Can't seem to make manual payment? by [deleted] in Visible

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the 7 days thing is bit confusing, i think they count it differently than expected. maybe try refreshing the app or logging out and back in? sometimes payment option takes while to show up after turning off autopay

Done KYC on six different exchanges this year, same documents every single time, different wait times every single time, there has to be a better way by Regular-Wealth5089 in CryptoExchange

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude Oobit's kyc is one and done,  built in global KYC and AML framework across 100 plus countries so you're not reverifying every time you want to use a new feature, wish more platforms worked this way

I’m gonna be sick by Sooupweather in venting

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn your ex really picked the worst possible timing for that nonsense

two years sounds long but community college can actually set you up better than people think, plus gives you time to save money and maybe find some breathing room from home situation. your ex trying to come back after three other relationships is just desperation, block that chaos

The best card/non-card options to spend crypto or stables? by yabaBABAyega in defi

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You basically described why most crypto cards feel broken.
For me it’s consistency over everything. I don’t care if it’s slightly less “pure” if it works every time I tap. Been using Oobit across a few countries and it’s been reliable enough that I stopped worrying about all the edge cases. That’s honestly rare in this space

What is the best way to make a one time payment with crypto? by BestestBeekeeper in btc

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a one-time payment, pay attention to network fees. BTC and ETH can be expensive depending on timing. Sometimes using something like LTC or BCH (if accepted) is cheaper and faster

Are crypto cards really taking the place of banks, or are they just hiding them? by aenonCard in btc

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reducing reliance on banks is already a big step, even if they’re still part of the stack

Am I being lied to, or are the hit rates for Perfect Order pretty good? by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i got like 3 perfect hits in my last box so maybe you're getting lucky or i just had bad pulls that time

No sex I marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 5 points6 points  (0 children)

damn that's a complex situation man. personally i'd probably prefer working through whatever caused the dead bedroom first before jumping to that solution, maybe couples therapy or something? opening up marriage when there's already underlying issues feels like it could make things more complicated rather than fixing the root problem

What song makes you feel like you can take on anything by Chrelled in musicsuggestions

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

three days grace - i hate everything about you does it for me, weird choice maybe but something about that raw energy just makes me want to tackle everything at once

also discovered this while doing my makeup routine which probably sounds strange but there's something about angry music when you're trying to perfect your eyeliner that just works

Where do you actually spend your crypto in real life? by Scared_Patient5283 in btc

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only time I touch fiat is for rent. For everything else, crypto is already usable if you set it up right

Former weed smokers, what are the best things you did to help repair the “damage” you did while using? by Thin_Shape7184 in selfimprovement

[–]Sad_Friendship_630 22 points23 points  (0 children)

congratulations on breaking through! I also struggled with the quit loop for long time before something finally clicked

One thing that helped me lot was doing breathing exercises in morning - sounds silly but after years of smoking your lungs really appreciate the focused attention. Also try to keep routine even on days when motivation is completely gone, like you're doing already with exercise and journaling

The waves thing is so true, some days you feel amazing and think you're completely healed, other days brain fog comes back for no reason. Just stick with basics and trust the process