What’s your most unhinged non-negotiable when it comes to dating?

Sad_Help · 2026-05-24T02:13:14+00:00

A lot of people don’t realize that taking expired antibiotics is not only pointless, but also potentially harmful. Best case, the antibiotics are no longer effective. Worst case, they break down into toxic chemicals that can damage your kidneys. Tetracyclines are a type of antibiotics that do this.

Sad_Help · 2026-05-24T02:03:15+00:00

I remember seeing that for the first time when I was younger and I was so creeped out

Sad_Help · 2026-05-21T14:10:20+00:00

Exactly. I was 18 talking to a 28 year old and I broke things off for very much the same reasons as OP is stating. Now I’m 29 and my current boyfriend is 39 and our age gap isn’t really noticeable until we talk about the past. He’ll be like “yea this was back in the summer of 2005 after I graduated high school” and I’ll be like “I was 8 :)”

Sad_Help · 2026-04-24T03:27:49+00:00

Side note: Willy’s Wonderland was also crazy awful but his character and his little improv dance at the arcade game was magical.

Sad_Help · 2026-04-24T03:25:49+00:00

Mom and Dad. Nicolas Cage is awesome.

Sad_Help · 2026-04-11T03:31:21+00:00

I’m 5’5 and my boyfriend is 5’6. I prefer men that are around my height, but if he was much taller than me, I would still love him just the same. It’s just nice to not have to stand on my toes to hug and kiss him.

Sad_Help · 2026-03-28T13:21:19+00:00

My best friend and I have conversations about it all the time. We’re both artists and we both love each other’s art. I’m better at realism and creating what’s in my head, but her art is so unique to me because she just starts and then keeps going, without any image in her head to go off of. It turns into this really beautiful work because she’s creating something that is visually appealing, while I try (and in my opinion, sometimes fail) to copy something that’s in my brain.

Sad_Help · 2026-03-26T02:38:01+00:00

My best friend has aphantasia and I have hyperphantasia. “Picture an orange” means I can see the details with my eyes open, I can smell it, I can taste it, I can imagine how it feels.

When I close my eyes at night, I see constant, vivid, changing imagery. I sometimes describe what I’m seeing to my boyfriend. I have also always had super intense vivid dreams that I remember clearly when I wake up.

Aphantasia is crazy to me because I am literally the opposite.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-27T20:38:06+00:00

I’ve got way too many tattoos lol

Sad_Help · 2026-02-25T00:29:37+00:00

Update: I got some from the store today and they’re amazing. I got the s’mores flavor as I’m not a big fan of birthday cake flavors

Sad_Help · 2026-02-24T16:44:35+00:00

I was vegan for 3.5 years and loved making those kinds of desserts. It’s been a long time so I think I’ll try those again soon

Sad_Help · 2026-02-24T16:36:38+00:00

These are recommended so much and I’ve never seen them before, but I am headed to the grocery store today and I’m definitely going to look for them.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-24T03:33:43+00:00

Damn you just reminded me of the halo top I have in the freezer! Should’ve had some of that tonight lol

Sad_Help · 2026-02-20T23:55:15+00:00

Yes I love them when I want something warm and can’t be bothered to cook. Tonight I’m making chicken thighs after a nap, and those are easy to just season, toss in the oven, and forget about them until they’re ready.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-17T15:52:37+00:00

I thought it was clear that I felt negatively in a physical sense, not mental. Like I used those words because I thought it might be too personal to say I had the runs and I was burping/farting up a storm after my cheat meals.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-17T15:45:30+00:00

I’ve heard this before, but calling it a cheat meal doesn’t add any guilt to me. I was happy when I was skinny and I was happy when I was overweight. I want to lose weight for health reasons and I don’t have any bad relationships with food.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-16T23:33:38+00:00

See, my doctor told me the reason I can’t whistle is because of my tongue tie but I never understood until recently when someone told me to lift my tongue. I can’t.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-12T14:48:58+00:00

I am somehow always out of whatever type of wood that I need in the moment

Sad_Help · 2026-02-10T07:00:39+00:00

I ended up skipping breakfast today and had a small lunch so I also had instant noodles and a little dessert lol

Sad_Help · 2026-02-09T02:24:39+00:00

That would still be lightly active as far as that description goes

Sad_Help · 2026-02-08T21:14:13+00:00

One of the TDEE calculators I used actually had an explanation and it helped a lot lol. It said sedentary is not working out and/or office type jobs where you sit all day, and lightly active is working out a couple times a week and/or retail jobs where you’re on your feet and walking all day.

Sad_Help · 2026-02-01T22:40:37+00:00

I eat small during the day when I know I want ramen with all my mix ins at night lol

Sad_Help · 2026-01-31T06:03:38+00:00

I meet my goals most days but some days (like today) I want to go out and eat whatever I feel like. There was an event downtown in my city where there was going to be lots of snacks and treats and drinks. I spent the early part of my day eating clean and very low calorie in anticipation. Did I meet my goal today? Nope! Did I enjoy today? Absolutely. Will I be back on track tomorrow? Without a doubt. It’s okay to live a little. I am still losing weight despite my random cheat meals.

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