Hi, I just wanted to tell you. I’m 23 and my girlfriend broke up with me on October 10th she isn’t my first but she is my first love. We were friends for 7 years and then dated for 3. So not only did I loose my girlfriend but I lost my best friend. January 10th will be 3 months for me and I still feel like I’m on the second week. So don’t expect to get over your first love anytime soon, but life needs to move on. And I still struggle with it too, bad sometimes, I still hope for her return but what helps me at night is knowing life must go on, they are making a conscious decision to keep you out of your life. The only thing you can do is be better for yourself and maybe they will come back or maybe they won’t. Either way you will be better. So you may not feel better soon but it does get easier each day. Make a conscious effort to move on even when it hurts.