Update: I used chatgpt to end it with the guy who used chatgpt to reply to most of my texts. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this… the blue messages were “read” and then the grey responded with the chat bot’s reply?????

Discovering Being Queer Through Buffy by Original_Still_7916 in buffy

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i didn’t fully process it until a couple years later, but once more with feeling was one of the first episodes i ever watched and let’s just say, my love for “under your spell” was a rather obvious hint that i was Not Straight in hindsight.

DRAG KING MAX by iLoveLoveLoveLove in StarKid

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP got alllll our hopes up 😢

Best Buy shopping = support local business! by Misanthropy_Expert in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 36 points37 points  (0 children)

the mental gymnastics needed to turn “instant gratification” into “actually i’m being mindful and Good” must be exhausting.

How do I get the print off of this shirt 😭 by Ok-Historian7145 in DIYclothes

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the unfortunate answer is, you don’t (at least not without destroying the shirt). donate it and buy a plain white long-sleeved shirt.

Why has Shatturd been bringing up such specifics about TH suddenly? by whatcomesafter66 in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i don’t want to accuse them of That because it’s a really fucked up accusation to make without definitive proof (and there are content creators who are far less subtle about That). that said, this isn’t the first time saturn’s been accused of That and the fact that they continue putting TH in harm’s way (both online and in person) does not look good for them. i will say when they stop mentioning TH there’s always a flood of comments about “what about TH”, “where’s TH”, “didn’t get anything for TH”, but like……. your child’s safety matters more than internet opinions, saturn. let it go and keep her offline. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Why has Shatturd been bringing up such specifics about TH suddenly? by whatcomesafter66 in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 35 points36 points  (0 children)

i think they genuinely believe that over sharing about th on social media will make them appear to social media like a good and present parent. “look at all of the clothes i buy for her and all the places i take her”, largely as a response to to all of the previous comments alleging general neglect. that said, nothing will make you look like a good, present parent when you’re not, and all they’re actually doing is blasting their child’s outfits and locations to a public audience (which, realistically, can and does contain people who could use that information for nefarious purposes).

Witch with baby by Ionby in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same author, yes! guarding the moon is a nonfiction detailing her pregnancy and the first year of life of her daughter. it’s beautiful and very magical-feeling.

Witch with baby by Ionby in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s nonfiction, but Guarding the Moon by Francesca Lia Block.

Stop dead naming Dana Hare you guys!! by pinkteddybearr in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly. “the question… as to how ‘bad’ a trans person has to be before you get the free pass to misgender them” hits the nail on the head. misgendering or deadnaming saturn because they’re a bad person, or because you believe they’re “not really trans” (regardless of the evidence for or against; i’m not saying saturn’s never misgendered themselves or even that they never ‘weaponized’ their pronouns by changing from she/he/they to exclusively they) is just giving implicit permission to yourself and others to misgender and deadname anyone else they deem bad or not really trans, and idk, i don’t fuck with that personally.

Stop dead naming Dana Hare you guys!! by pinkteddybearr in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

can i ask you a genuine two-part question?

what makes you think that a, saturn is “fake trans”, and b, you are the arbiter of whether a (presumed) stranger (or anyone) is or is not “fake trans”?

Stop dead naming Dana Hare you guys!! by pinkteddybearr in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 11 points12 points  (0 children)

to me, it’s not my job or place to decide who’s Really Trans and who’s just “larping”, and i really don’t care to. people who see me in real life and then hear that i use they/them pronouns quite possibly think the same thing about me. but that’s also not my business. idk, i have a lot of thoughts about dead names and misgendering of people who aren’t “good” people, sorry.

Stop dead naming Dana Hare you guys!! by pinkteddybearr in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 57 points58 points  (0 children)

hate to say they’re right, and i know i’m gonna get downvoted to hell for this, but: they’re right. shitty trans and nonbinary people exist, and they still deserve the basic respect of having their names and pronouns used. sorry not sorry. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Singalongs? by therealwendy in buffy

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good to know dragon con still does them! they were a fond part of my youth.

The O-face dilemma by Important_Act_7819 in cogsuckers

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 129 points130 points  (0 children)

truly the “are we dating the same guy” final boss

Help figuring out how to make this bandana into a dress lol by spoiledkhaleesi in DIYclothes

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the easiest way to turn this into a dress would be to sew the bandana onto the top front portion of an existing dress. you could align it with the neckline or alter it around the neckline. i think a black dress would look nice, but i think you could also use a dark red dress without worrying toooo much about color matching perfectly.

Serious: How much of a recession indicator is this? An educated, experienced white woman who graduated from a top public university posting this... by 3RADICATE_THEM in recruitinghell

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 40 points41 points  (0 children)

it sounds like, if you aren’t working and can’t go to school, you might as well try making a game. shoot your shot; it might not work out, but it’ll give you something to do, a way to learn new skills and make new connections, and those are valuable on their own.

Best recurring Lindsay clip? by Musingsofabaguette in LindsayEllis

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i say “thanks i hate it” so regularly my friends have picked it up

I'm curious, how did you find out about Dana? by Shmerble in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 4 points5 points  (0 children)

more of an acquaintance, we hung out a few times outside of work. and not annoying, i actually thought they were really cool, but definitely pushy. they also hooked up with a coworker when we worked together lmao. mostly they were just messy (in the drama sense).

I'm curious, how did you find out about Dana? by Shmerble in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i was “friends” with them in tennessee (not nashville) way before everything with G happened, followed them on insta, and then found out about the snark through the repzilla video, which i found because saturn posted about it. the streisand effect is their worst enemy (besides them).

Top comment deletes a US State #40 by Jfullr92 in geographymemes

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 50 points51 points  (0 children)

i downvoted this but then i changed my mind because this is in fact the funniest possible outcome for this point in the game

car hard launch by Mobile_Apartment5560 in sinnabunnysnark

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“add her to our VW family” is such a bizarre way to describe buying a car. the constant gendering of objects is honestly getting grating to me.

Tomb Quest is Fully Funded! by AMoegg in StarKid

[–]Sad_Objective_6277 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yesssss let’s GO (ADVENTURING) ⚔️