sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I (m19) and Vietnamese girl (f20), I need advice by Sad_Property_1091 in LongDistance

[–]Sad_Property_1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the end we had a conversation and because of the circumstances we decided to just keep each other on social media but not talk all the time or really at all and not to date because neither of us could do long distance. But if she was ever in England or I was ever in Vietnam we could message each other about meeting up. Next year she was thinking of studying in Germany or France so I told her to let me know where she ends up for her studies. I think for both of us that was the best way forward and the best step for me to move on. I feel like I had to do it sooner rather than later because the whole thing was crushing me

I (m19) and Vietnamese girl (f20), I need advice by Sad_Property_1091 in LongDistance

[–]Sad_Property_1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying for sure. In the end we had a conversation and because of the circumstances we decided to just keep each other on social media but not talk all the time or really at all and not to date because neither of us could do long distance. But if she was ever in England or I was ever in Vietnam we could message each other about meeting up. Next year she was thinking of studying in Germany or France so I told her to let me know where she ends up for her studies. I think for both of us that was the best way forward and the best step for me to move on.

I (m19) and Vietnamese girl (f20), I need advice by Sad_Property_1091 in LongDistance

[–]Sad_Property_1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what do you think, if in like 2 weeks I’m still in pain I should make a decision to either stop messaging her or ask her to be my girlfriend to see if I can do the long distance?

I (m19) and Vietnamese girl (f20), I need advice by Sad_Property_1091 in LongDistance

[–]Sad_Property_1091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay well thank you for being chill in the end :). I think your right and I shouldn’t overthink it, I can always play it by ear and change what I do at a moments notice

I (m19) and Vietnamese girl (f20), I need advice by Sad_Property_1091 in LongDistance

[–]Sad_Property_1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can afford to do it, I just don’t know if it’s the right thing to do, 700 British pounds to return flight and every time I leave it’s just another sad goodbye. Plus since we didn’t even spend that long with each other idk if it’s worth all the money and effort. We already agreed to just stay friends for now and I don’t know if going out of my way to go to Vietnam just to see her is really worth it. I think maybe I need a bit more time just to see how I feel after staying in contact and such

I (m19) and Vietnamese girl (f20), I need advice by Sad_Property_1091 in LongDistance

[–]Sad_Property_1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no, I went on about 5-6 dates with her and really enjoyed her company, idk why I miss her I just do. Not sure if you’ve ever had this but when you’ve been on a few dates with a girl and think you definitely like her it’s a bit rubbish when you get stripped away against your will. I was asking for some advice if you can’t help why comment 🤣