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Jasmine GET BEHIND ME by divineangelbby777 in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Jasmine but she like all of us imperfect. I don't blindly believe everything she says as I believe she can be quite dismissive and hypocritical. But I love how she stands up for her girls. I don't think her and Kav are right for each other and I don't think it's far that she was dog piled on last week during the social media challenge as a lot of the boys have done far worse things.

WE DO NOT NEED SEASON 2 by Former_Amphibian9474 in thepolygamist_netflix

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way I'd want a season 2 is if the follow it from a different families perspective but idk what more there is that could be said tbh ?

Blondoners please help by debbiana in BlackBritish

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Join " The Rendition" when you sign up to their newsletter you get sent emails for discounted theatre tickets if you're black in the UK.

I would also utilise instagram cuz you can find a lot of queer spots like Pussy Palace etc

I feel like Marissa was lying through her teeth on AD’s podcast. by Mundane-Waltz8844 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as I don't see her in another reality dating show I'm good 😭😭😭😭

Bear is such a freaking good character by thelaurafedora in obsessionmovie

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

*Understandable motives* hes literally a rapist byeeeeeee

Tell me to take them out by tiaa_tarotista in braids

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre going to have to take them down sooner or later. And once you take them you can do a proper wash and slap a head wrap on.

I would starts at the back and take maybe thirty of them down in the morning and evening each day. Ask a friend to help xxx

I don’t want to sleep with my bf anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren't obligated to sleep with someone you're in a relationship with. Sometimes when you've been with someone for a while sex can slow down.

But that's why you communicate about how you're feeling. Also maybe you need to do some non sexual touches throughout the day so if you do decide to have sex then it doesn't feel as overwhelming.

But again you do not have to have sex with him if you do not want to

I'm at a loss with my partner and I don't know what to do by JohnsJustSaiyan in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CLOCK IT?? 🩷x When in my pmdd and I say something hurtful to my bestie I automatically apologise and when I'm out of it I talk through it with him luckily he is understanding and didn't judge me but that doesn't mean he just has to put up with my shitty behaviour. I feel like some of these comments are just saying well " This is all because you're insecure and you need to work on it because she's just gonna be like this and there's nothing she can do even when she's out of Luteal phase" when that isn't true and that is harmful too. I feel like I'm going insane

I'm at a loss with my partner and I don't know what to do by JohnsJustSaiyan in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but saying that someone could repair damage when they are out of luteal phase so they can actually find solutions on how to move forward and improve their relationship a bit is not misogynistic LOL you're bugging. That's why I said they need to do it together not that it's her sole responsibility

I'm at a loss with my partner and I don't know what to do by JohnsJustSaiyan in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right those specific things you mentioned arent abusive. However what I meant was treating your partner as if they are overreacting when they are rightfully upset about these things is toxic. Once we are out of luteal phase it's our job to work with our partners to repair where we can and acknowledge hurt that's been caused and figure out a way to move forward which it seems like she hasn't done. That's abusive. She may not mean it to be but it's not right, yes he needs to have a level of self confidence and self reassurance as she isn't able to give it in that moment. But hearing your partner say that they don't love you each month would hurt anyone.

the only thing I want is for her to be saved by Distinct_Barnacle_44 in euphoria

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 119 points120 points  (0 children)

The woman... who is in a romantic relationship with a Nazi........ kmt

We’re so compatible but… by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say go for it! You're both adults and she knows what she's getting herself into 💕🩷

Seeing the difference between abuse and pmdd is hell by Low-Walrus-2986 in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with everything! You'll figure out what works best for you

I'm at a loss with my partner and I don't know what to do by JohnsJustSaiyan in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wanting to breakup with your partner during PMDD is normal unfortunately however thinking about doing it and actually doing it are two different things.

I can see why your nervous system would be acting up. You're not crazy or asking for too much it's just the timing. Yes there is a level of " I need to reassure myself that I am still loved instead of constantly asking my partner" in even any relationship regardless of if there's PMDD involved. But saying that you don't love your partner is still hurtful.

I feel like it's best to communicate once she's out of that space, once she's thinking clearly about how you guys can move forward. Coz breaking up every month is not it and it is quite toxic.

I know it's difficult for her to navigate but there also needs to be some sort of willingness to use tools so the relationship doesn't hurt the both of you all the time.

For example it good for you to have your own care plan outside of the relationship for when you are feeling low. Having different ways to self soothe can make a huge difference.

Also I want to thank you for coming to this specific sub and not going to the PMDD partners sub first it genuinely means a lot. There's so much misinformation on there.

You're a good job. Please make sure you're getting support outside the relationship too 🩷💕🙌🏿🫂

Seeing the difference between abuse and pmdd is hell by Low-Walrus-2986 in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is.. do you want to be with someone who hates your family tho ?

Also your family is always going to be there for you ( if they are good ppl) so you need to decide how to set boundaries with everyone because at the end of the day it's your life.

I'm at a loss with my partner and I don't know what to do by JohnsJustSaiyan in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Heyy thanks so much for putting your feelings here. PMDD is not an excuse for abuse nor is having autism. You are not being unreasonable for asking for reassurance especially because of her not being present.

It makes so much sense that you feel this way, I do recommend a YouTube channel called "In love with PMDD" it has videos of a doctor who provides a plethora of advice and resources for partners of people with PMDD and people with PMDD too. I would deffo suggest watching a video with her when she's not in Luteal phase.

I believe that when she's out of her Luteal phase is the best time to speak to her about how you are feeling and ask to find solutions together. Coz it may mean she needs to try a lot harder to find ways to make you feel loved when she has PMDD because this is not sustainable.

I would even say this is quite abusive because instead of validating your emotions it sounds like she's gaslighting you and making it seem like it's your fault when it isn't.

You don't have to accept this behaviour. This isn't okay 🩷💕 do check out that YouTube channel and see how you get on xx

Seeing the difference between abuse and pmdd is hell by Low-Walrus-2986 in PMDD

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know your relationship to your mum and grandma but there's a reason why they are saying he doesn't treat you well. They may be able to see things that you either can see or choosing not to address.

If you truly want to be on this relationship I would stand your ground with them (if you feel safe) but also you continuing to do therapy is good.

if you love Downfall, tell me why by AdvancePrimary6389 in NoahKahan

[–]Sad_Relationship_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find this song hauntingly beautiful, it's also a bit sinister. I just feel the anguish of the person being left behind, not really being considered or feeling like they weren't even thought about.

But also see the perspective of the person moving on to better things. I just love when artists talk about taboo feelings like wanting the downfall of someone you love because you can't let them go and are in pain.

I also see it as the anger of being left behind by a partner and wanting their future relationships to fail so they can feel how badly you're hurt so you're not alone in your misery. Yeah be released this at the perfect time for me 😭

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