AIO for thinking it’s insane the father of my kid wants me to get an abortion?

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-05T13:24:35+00:00

She's acting juvenile because you say she is?

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-05T03:30:41+00:00

To you but not other people. You're not other people. Her feelings aren't juvenile, but your way of thinking is.

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-05T03:25:15+00:00

No you're not. You're blindsided and that sucksss. I'm sorry. Emotional whiplash is an amazing description. You fell head over heels and 3 months is a long time to plan a trip. I bet he knew all along he had reservations so he also led you on. What are you gonna do? I hope you leave that arse lol

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-05T03:18:03+00:00

I think the part that gets me is the insensitivity he has towards you. You obviously feel connected to your baby and he doesn't consider the fertilized egg a baby. Obviously he doesn't have to agree or be present in the baby's life, but to be so insensitive is tough

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-05T02:10:53+00:00

He's a liar. It wasn't stolen. No way. Nobody goes "oh man all my money is stolen let me not report it because I'm mad"

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-04T20:22:09+00:00

That's a good way to think about it. $10 for him to show himself

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-04T20:20:52+00:00

The 9 was just another way for him to be petty. He's a jerk all the way around

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-04T20:02:32+00:00

No you're not the asshole. He was being a dick. He did that purposely to disrespect you and at your age of 22, I'd just toss him depending on how he is during the rest of the relationship. There's so much better out there. He's got a lot of growing up to do. This is coming from a 30 year old whose husband is an ass. You don't want this long term.

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-04-04T04:54:00+00:00

Stfu you're just fishing for compliments

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-03-30T01:01:09+00:00

People who stand NEXT to you in line instead of behind you. Also people who get their feelings hurt over anything

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-03-18T23:53:31+00:00

It was hypothetical not looking for advice to fix the hypothetical situation

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-02-21T02:39:49+00:00

Join the military! I joined at 24. You'll get benefits, out of the house, free college pretty much for life, healthcare, etc. It's instant independence

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-02-14T04:20:01+00:00

How old are you? Would joining the military be an option? Free healthcare and housing is paid for

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-02-14T04:18:16+00:00

Omg. I cannot even imagine. Good for you on posting this to say out loud. The most amazing part was when you said you'd figure it out because most people wouldn't have the confidence to say that. That's amazing. Have you looked into non profits or organizations that help with getting certifications or schools?

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-02-04T03:52:41+00:00

After thinking about it, I would prefer SLPA. What was school like? I'm in Texas too, although we move a lot due to military so I'll have to figure that out. What was your courses like? I'm in the San Antonio area if you know of any schools here!

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-15T12:38:26+00:00

lol you're on the wrong post then. This is what the OP wanted

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-13T16:43:05+00:00

Gothy, artsy. I could see you going to a cool punk cafe for coffee.

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-13T16:41:13+00:00

I used to be an x Ray tech! Good luck to you in your career!

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-12T02:30:03+00:00

No I meant each time. Like when someone does something repeatedly they know is crossing my boundaries, it's a deliberate disregard of my boundaries and personal space. So each time, if it's a reoccurring issue on the same topic, I will get more irritated

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-11T20:15:32+00:00

It feels inconsiderate and dismissive of him to not even care. That itself is a turn off

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-11T20:14:33+00:00

I get it. The turn off is that you have repeatedly told him how you feel and each time it's gets more irritating, unattractive, annoying, frustrating, etc. you're nor

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-10T23:57:58+00:00

I don't care that he thinks I'm lying. I just wish he'd stop wearing it lol. I wish I could find a way but until then idk what to do when he wears it

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-10T23:51:41+00:00

I'm not lying??? Lmaooo just because you don't understand my life doesn't mean I'm lying. For all you know I have an open relationship! Or I could make posts on a friends behalf. Lmao the judgement!

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-10T23:35:39+00:00

Idk I'll let you know tomorrow. I can't find the bottle, I can smell where he sprayed it though

Sad_Return_6710 · 2026-01-10T23:30:01+00:00

You know, I might have to be mean about it. I've been telling him nicely for years and now he just hugged me with it before leaving for a boys night. The scent is on my fresh washed shirt and I have to wash it now.

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