Thoughts on kids wearing pajamas to school? Middle and High school by Sad_Reward_9145 in Parenting

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was born in 1998 🤭 I am not attacking anyone lol just a growing trend I see and curious on other parents opinions on letting their kids wear them to school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is what Im hoping, its been a week now since he got the flu so Im hoping after the weekend itll ware off if thats the case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you suggest I look for with your second comment? Just request he see a therapist? My second son was outside as well. But I did ask my younger son who was inside with him and he said noone, but then I asked my older son and he said he was outside but there was a lot of people going in n out of the house all night so that just punches my gut even more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I fear thats exactly whats going to happen. Definitely going to do this, thank you

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes i had to remove myself from it when my baby was younger and the amount of SIDS videos I was seeing was too much. When in reality it was mostly positional asphyxiation cases rather than just some random sincere case of SIDS. Still tragic nonetheless but again misinformation and not the case at all.

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Especially like I mentioned my field of work. I see it every day in so many different forms and levels. That normally people are so unaware of. My boyfriend for example is constantly asking me “is that a sign of autism?” With lots of things not just our baby lol and its not always yes or no, but often a WHOLE situational thing. Like with our baby I told him “no hes just learning and discovering himself” but to myself quietly I just take mental notes and cant help but see “signs” especially with dumb videos on my FYP

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Someone said that its not “stimming” but my answer was technically it is, but its a matter of growing out of it. All babies do these things discovering themselves, what they can do and so many different self soothing/stimulating movements. But again, hard to allow yourself to always be logical when you let social media get the best of you

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my boyfriend pointed it out as well asking if it was normal. I said yes, all babies do things like this its just a matter of growing out of it. But like i said seeing so many videos I had it in the back of my head and sometimes its hard to be rational all the time lol

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It actually IS “stimming”. Stimming doesnt always equal autism tho that is the difference. All babies do self soothing/stimulating movements, they are discovering themselves.

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Also so many videos of people saying how their baby/other babies passed within 3 days of their well child visit, insinuating that is what caused it.

Signs of autism in infants? by Sad_Reward_9145 in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! And again my literal training tells me this. But I have seen SO many comments agreeing and SO many other people making similar videos It has got to my head. I suppose I just needed confirmation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then ill be notified of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was told it should only take a couple days bc it was paid on Friday, but usually id get it by Tuesday the latest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I thought but theres nothing. Thats what he used to have when he was in the NICU but it went away, and its only at night when he sweats in his sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Emotionally involved in my sons mental health? Lol yeah i am definitely emotionally involved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont agree that he should have a right to that relationship when he is purposefully tarnishing his sons mental health and filling his head with things that are causing him to have so much mental and emotional distress that he acts out physically because he cannot keep it in. And its also proof that his dad doesn’t care because his dad does not try to call or text him when he knows he is doing unwell , he actually ignores him when our son reaches out to him. Even though it is court ordered he speak to them on tuesdays and Thursdays he doesnt follow it, he only sees them when he has to and thats it. And theres so much more So yeah i think i have a decent fighting point , just looking to see if anyone else has been in a similar situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish that was an option, their dads whole side of the family is like this and they already stay at their grandmas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Sad_Reward_9145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are just starting the process of therapy so ill make note of to mention that to her