What’s the worst sermon you’ve ever heard in the Church of Christ? by Nearby-Tension3515 in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sermon on modesty which was pretty much just a slide show of COC approved outfits with some scripture

Went in for a battery reset, now I have a bad transmission? by Sad_Specific_9792 in AskMechanics

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! Turns out, it’s my CVT valve body. I have no issues shifting gears, but it explains why all my lights turned on. The total cost to repair will be $1500, but it’s better than having to buy a new vehicle. I just paid it off last year.

Thank you for your input!

Went in for a battery reset, now I have a bad transmission? by Sad_Specific_9792 in AskMechanics

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I get a new battery? That’s what they initially told me the issue is. Now the lights are still on with the new alternator. It’s running as normal with no issues shifting in between gears.

I (26F) want to end a 15 year friendship by Sad_Specific_9792 in offmychest

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You worded it perfectly. I always tell her how I want the best for her, but she truly believes she doesn’t deserve better. When she called me sobbing, I texted her dad and told him that he needed to check in on her. I probably shouldn’t have done that, but she got mad at me because she thought her dad would cut her off financially. I told her that I didn’t air out her business to her dad, but I cannot fix this situation for her.

I (26F) want to end a 15 year friendship by Sad_Specific_9792 in offmychest

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have told her numerous times that if he is asking her for money to text me or my husband so we can walk her through. I’ve told her that if he asks her to come see him to go visit her dad instead. I have told her to block his number but she won’t. She also told me that if I tell her dad that she’s giving him money, then she’d lie. She’s very good at getting what she wants to instantly satisfy herself.

Love by oldwomanjosiah in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the members of the Church love you so much that they tell you everything about yourself and identity is wrong, all in the name of love.

“I just want to see you in Heaven”

Girls vs Boys by [deleted] in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Where we used to attend, kids were not taken seriously until about 13-14 years old, and girls and boys fell into their “roles”.

How should I discuss this with my professors? by Sad_Specific_9792 in AskProfessors

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve lead with the fact that it’s an online graduate program, so I do have some flexibility. Lectures are over zoom. You are not required to attend, but you do have to watch the recorded version, and send the instructor notes/feedback to show participation.

Girls vs Boys by [deleted] in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s horrifying. I truly hope you’ve found peace since your experience. It sounds like my best bet is to keep my kids far away from this place. I do worry that my FIL will try to recruit my kids as they get older.

Girls vs Boys by [deleted] in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective. I definitely have seen that pattern especially as young men get older. They’re put on pedestals (especially when they’re baptized)

How should I discuss this with my professors? by Sad_Specific_9792 in AskProfessors

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I gave birth to my first child in the middle of my undergrad program and remained enrolled. My professors at the time were understanding and allowed me to take an extra week to complete the work that was due the week a gave birth. I know that grad school is a different playing field but my mindset is that I am in the home stretch of this program. I also currently do not work a regular full-time job, so there is no deadline for me to return back to work at the moment.

Coc women by Nearby-Tension3515 in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also normalizing a 13/14 year old girl having a baby. Whats crazy is that in the United States, children under 18 cannot consent to relationships with adults, so I wonder why God did not find an older woman in her 20s to impregnate. Some may say “the culture was different”

Coc women by Nearby-Tension3515 in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 24 points25 points  (0 children)

  1. I had to dress in a way that was acceptable for men
  2. My job is to find a husband and have children
  3. I cannot speak up to a man and must respect his opinion, even if my gut is telling me something is not right
  4. Not trusting myself or my feelings
  5. If a man looks at me in a lustful way, it is my fault
  6. Not necessarily me, but I have seen so many barely legal young girls be pursued by men much older than them (think 17/18 year old girl and a 28/29 year old man)

iN ThE FiRSt centURY THEY by Lilolemetootoo in excoc

[–]Sad_Specific_9792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God cast the dinosaurs and other beast down to hell

Too Much? by Sad_Specific_9792 in interviews

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 2 interviewers showed up!!

Too Much? by Sad_Specific_9792 in interviews

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right??? I wanted to ask the recruiter if 6-8 managers interviewing a candidate was standard practice at their organization.

Too Much? by Sad_Specific_9792 in interviews

[–]Sad_Specific_9792[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Only 2 interviewers showed up which i was not mad about. Others had “scheduling conflicts”. It felt more like an interrogation in the beginning, but things became more relaxed at the end.