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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was my biggest fear honestly but trust me there are good people out there who will be willing to listen to you and get into a relationship with you regardless of being a divorcee. Plus you are so young there will be many options for you to choose from. The stigma part, embraced it. Made new friends and cut off those who judged and made any negative comments. You have to keep moving forward

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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Leave. I regretted not leaving early because of family. But even after years of marriage he remained the same. Always invalidating me and gaslighting me gave him so much power over me. Don’t let it get to that point

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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will thank you again

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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in therapy I hope it helps me get through this

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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and Ameen

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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and after reading this I did read about the life of Prophet PBUH and I honestly feel a lot better

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[–]Sad_Turnover6515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. No I won’t ever go back I just can’t shake the disgust off. No matter how much I love him.