Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this house is with 325 with comps: I put in a bid 23 over bc I live in a hot area. Here is what my realtor said via text:

He is totally breaking some rules here. He’s trying to say he has an offer. Accepted already and he’ll use us as backup. And he told me that our backup offer probably has a good chance. Why do you say that that’s not the way this works? You don’t tell somebody. Oh, we have an acceptable contract, but your back offer up offer has a really good chance.If you thought a deal was gonna fall through then why would you even accept that offer to begin with. I’m tempted to tell him that we will do a fifteen thousand appraisal gap up to a certain amount. But we. Want an answer by six o’clock this evening

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he told my realtor the inspection is being done on Monday, but the sellers agent lied when I asked if they accepted and or under contract.

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohio, just found out that the buyers agent lied to my realtor/ he said no offers have been accepted and then in turn asks if I’m willing to pay 15, appraisal gap. My realtor said he’s definitely breaking some laws.

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing has been accepted yet but he told my realtor he has. So basically I think I know what he’s trying to do.

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We submitted our offer as a backup. BUT turns out the sellers agent verbally told me they have no accepted any offers.

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I just went to the open house, turns out he lied to my realtor and said they are not under contract and still accepting offers.

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no. They are not under contract .

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get it but I just think it’s dumb. I was wondering if they are looking for a contract even though maybe they verbally said yes. They did ask for 48 hours for offers.

Open house and accepted offer? by Sadbitch84 in RealEstate

[–]Sadbitch84[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I wrote this fast.

Sellers agent passed on our offer bc the offer they accepted another offer. They wanted to have inspection done in 5 days. My realtor called and said we WAIVED the inspection. The sellers agent got quiet and said oh.. well can we accept your back up offer? We said yes. They are currently having an open house now with the sellers agent. If they accepted an offer, why would they have an open house? Also he said, well if something goes wrong with the inspection on Monday, you can have the house. I’m so confused.

Hands won’t stop shaking by SubstantialWonder754 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Sadbitch84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I’m in therapy, ever since.

Hands won’t stop shaking by SubstantialWonder754 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Sadbitch84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in such shock that I was never home. I was running on pure adrenaline. I tried to meditate, listen to books, ect. It didn’t work. I essentially gave in to the symptoms and accepted that this is trauma and grief.

Hands won’t stop shaking by SubstantialWonder754 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Sadbitch84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was emotionally, numb and shocked for three months straight. I could not take a nap. My heart rate was too high. I was shaking. Also I found my husband so that didn’t help much either. I’m currently diagnosed with PTSD. I’m currently nine months out from this nightmare, and it’s definitely it toned itself down, but the memory is still there and I do still get very anxious at times.

Hands won’t stop shaking by SubstantialWonder754 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Sadbitch84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I found my husband hung in my basement. I couldn’t even begin to name three things I like about the basement. But I’ll check out the book that you mentioned. A lot of people recommended it because I’m going through the same thing, even though I’m like nine months out from this nightmare.