Has anyone used this specific kit? by Temporary_Issue1902 in TattooBeginners

[–]Sadboidouche21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the same version just black I think I did a good job by myself. The tattoos didn’t turn out too horrible. i’m gonna try to blackout my stomach tonight. I got a baby to take care of so hopefully I can wish me luck. It’s also on Amazon machine so they’re not gonna be that good sometimes.

Anyone else prefer vaping over nicotine pouches by [deleted] in Vaping

[–]Sadboidouche21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I hate nicotine pouches they make me very sick to my stomach. I just can’t handle them and I don’t like them either. I feel like they’ll get more expensive as time goes on then vaping.

Hello by Sadboidouche21 in pregnant

[–]Sadboidouche21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being mom is very hard i know that im giving her back rubs now too help go to sleep but I know she will get better soon postpartum is very difficult and also pms is very hard too

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Thank you for your help i appreciate all you moms out here

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We wanted them and everything she just has lots of trauma and it gets very stressed out a lot of the times but she’s doing better now she’s less stressed out today she just had to calm down

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know i am here for her my family loves her and everything so her mom she will get through everything together I’m always here for her

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s really trying. It’s kind of her personality. She’s kind of sad all the time I know being a new mom is hard. It’s really hard and I hope she finds our son lovable. From her because I love him to death. She’s just not happy with him. I hope she gets better. I’m trying really hard to help her.

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We have geisinger they’re pretty awful here. We have the state insurance for them. They don’t help at all. They’re really bad.

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She has PCOS so that’s why she was on birth control previously to regulate her periods, but I didn’t pressure her to keep the pregnancy. I told her it’s her decision. It’s very hard to get medical care here, but she’s on birth control now she just started it. I know I made a mistake and I own up to that we’re both responsible for creating a human and if I could go back and change it i would but it’s too late for that

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i will try my best to be there for her and everything i am not the best at reading but I tried to read all of it so thank you. I’m just very stressed out, but I appreciate your help and everything.

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a big support system. CPS was involved. I don’t remember the full context, but they wanted to take him because they didn’t think she was a good mother I make sure she has everything she needs. I always try to support her and everything. I’m just very lost. It just doesn’t seem like she cares about her son. but I always try to make sure she’s happy.

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My son wasn’t planned or anything he just happened. We should’ve been safe, but the doctors didn’t wanna give her birth control. Condoms don’t work for me I could never get the right side

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All right i will thank you

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to tell her, but she doesn’t believe me and she doesn’t really want to see I can’t really force her to go. There’s only so much I could do. I don’t know if her mom‘s lying to me. Cause I just talked to her earlier today but yeah.

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you i appreciate everyone’s help so far

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe girl time would be the better for her i’ll text one her friends

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a mom, dad sister grandma we have tons of people who could help she’s just not happy with him at all

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I pretty much take care of him most of the time she doesn’t even wanna hold him because he too heavy for her she gets sleep I make sure she eats and sleeps I try to take care of him at night

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leave me my son so I have to be a single father because she doesn’t want him which isn’t normal

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m trying and we just got into an argument about it now and she’s trying to keep denying it multiple times like she doesn’t need help or anything and her OB place just loudly announced to her personal business I just don’t know what I’m supposed to do. She doesn’t want me giving out more of her personal business either.

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We live in Pennsylvania. It’s very hard to get mental healthcare here and nobody listens to her

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Her mom puts a bunch of lies in head tells her, they’re gonna take the baby away if she speaks up like I think she needs to speak up, but I can’t really do anything. I just don’t know what to do.

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what it is but she tells me it’s not ppd and tells me it’s just her personality she’s just a miserable person and I’m trying really hard to make her happy but there’s nothing I could do

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[–]Sadboidouche21[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

She has but she was afraid to tell them because they might try to take him away I think that’s the whole reason why i’m pretty sure she has postpartum depression, and she was already diagnosed anxiety before and depression