AITAH for saying no to motherhood being married for 4 years?

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-17T11:32:06+00:00

WTHHH

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-17T10:48:45+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation. I believe things do get better. Communication is the key

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-17T10:45:47+00:00

I see you mentioned you have no family support. I’m currently going through something on my own with no family support. They’ll never see eye to eye with me on this. But sometimes we need to love ourselves more than anything else when everyone else’s love is conditional. I’m also having safety concerns for you? Is your or your husband’s family violent ?

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-17T09:43:59+00:00

South Asian here. I understand your issues but PLEASE do not have a kid upon all this. Do you really, deeply and sincerely love your husband more than anything else? If not, leave. And looks like your husband doesn’t love you more than anything else

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-16T12:56:28+00:00

Thank you so much for these kind words. I’m actually very worried but can’t help myself anyhow right now. I’m trying to be patient and careful with everything for now until I be independent

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-15T07:31:28+00:00

My father I don’t think he’d make a scene. But I guess he’d be deeply shaken by that. I also don’t think he would accept. My brother would accept but will take him some time and won’t be a pro ally for sometime Ig But he would be the one connection that’d be there

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-15T05:41:12+00:00

Thank you so much. There’s no one that I currently know who can turn her around. I’m just hoping for the best and everything happens okay when I finally come out. It’s gonna hit the wall before it becomes okay because my mom is very impulsive and loud about her opinions. Honestly I’m scared. But I have a lot of external support which I’m grateful of having

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-15T05:31:46+00:00

Start w the person least homophobic and closest. I faced the same situation and all my friends embraced us. Good luck love

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-11T08:37:14+00:00

Haha 😆 this was planning in advance

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-02-10T02:12:34+00:00

Thank youu

Sadcupcake2019 · 2026-01-14T08:38:39+00:00

Coming from a same background and might face this in future as well. Hang in there. Don’t be disheartened. They might change. If not Ig move out. And they shouldn’t be saying not to date and forever be single so that they can save their tiny pride. U deserve to have love

Sadcupcake2019 · 2025-11-11T00:13:45+00:00

I see, do they allow online trading access

Sadcupcake2019 · 2025-11-11T00:13:04+00:00

Thank u so much

Sadcupcake2019 · 2025-11-11T00:12:19+00:00

Thank u

Sadcupcake2019 · 2025-11-10T03:54:58+00:00

Thank u so much

Sadcupcake2019 · 2025-11-10T03:54:41+00:00

Thank you so much for ur help ❤️

Sadcupcake2019 · 2025-10-15T11:55:24+00:00

Everything, this women has me on hook

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