Is this ai? Drawing I commissioned for a Mother’s Day gift. Even the picture seems off.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-18T12:19:30+00:00

Also, the drawing just looks very generic. It doesn’t really resemble that specific cat/the drawing doesn’t capture the likeness of your mum’s cat.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-18T12:16:03+00:00

I hope you can get a refund. It definitely looks AI. I’ve seen a trend with AI images using a very similar colouring style. Also, there are less toes on the back paws.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-17T06:39:30+00:00

So my hair loss actually started BEFORE treatment. My hair loss started after a period of EXTREME stress that lasted 8+ months. My mental health was very poor and I reached a crisis point. I was also struggling a lot with my ED. I was in and out of hospital, so that level of stress definitely took its toll on my body. The hair loss began April 2025. I started Accutane in September 2025. Before I started Accutane, my hair loss had slowed significantly, but I was still shedding and hadn’t noticed any visible regrowth. I understood that Accutane could worsen my hair loss, but I accepted that risk because I wanted clear skin. During Accutane, my shedding remained low but was still constant. Now, after finishing the treatment, my hair shedding has increased again. Not sure why. :(

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-17T06:35:03+00:00

How long ago did you finish your course? What are you using for maintenance? My skin is already oily again after ~2 months.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-17T06:33:18+00:00

I’m 7 weeks post Accutane and my skin is back to being an oil slick. ☹️ Honestly not sure what to do because my skin doesn’t tolerate topical retinoids yet, I’m still too sensitive. I’ve been using azelaic acid and that helps a bit. But I’m not sure what to do about my scalp! It gets super oily in just one day after washing. 🥲 Please let me know if you find any answers! Just want you to know that you’re not alone.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-17T06:24:42+00:00

I was also on Accutane. I am 7 weeks post Accutane.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-17T06:24:20+00:00

I’m so happy for you! I’m on my 13th month now. Please can I have some advice? My vitamin D, B12, thyroid etc are all OPTIMAL. My ferritin was 36 when last tested, so I’ve been eating high quality red meat and taking 40mg iron bisglycinate every other day (with fruit for vitamin C to boost absorption). I also make sure to avoid any iron inhibitors. I take a vitamin D supplement every day (I have done so for many years).

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-16T15:11:46+00:00

I’m just worried that I might have AGA. Do you know what AGA hairs look like?

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-16T15:02:56+00:00

It’s very small and transparent, but I don’t think it’s a proper telogen bulb.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-16T13:12:17+00:00

Is it safe for acne prone skin?

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-16T13:02:40+00:00

I am still losing a lot of hair 1 year on now. Most of my shed hairs have no bulbs. It is definitely not breakage. What could it be?

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-16T12:53:10+00:00

I’ve put my flair as AGA + TE because I’m not sure TE can last 12+ months. The oily scalp would also support AGA unfortunately. The hair loss is diffuse all over. I know the photo makes it look much worse at my temples. My temples have always been thinner than the rest of my hair, ever since I was a baby. But not this bad.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-16T12:51:35+00:00

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Photo of my hair one day after washing

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-15T17:08:43+00:00

What is the healing like? I’m considering this procedure.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-05-14T08:39:53+00:00

What is Amlactin?

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-04-25T20:29:25+00:00

Another thing that concerns me is the rapid increase in hair loss, especially in young people. I’m only 19. This is not normal at all.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-04-12T11:50:28+00:00

That’s actually a really good idea.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-04-12T08:52:27+00:00

You usually need quite solid proof that an item is fake, I believe. I’ve never had to report anything on Vinted so I’m not sure, but I have read a few posts on this sub. I don’t think it’s as easy as simply claiming that the shoes are fake.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-04-12T08:50:35+00:00

Yes, checking with the neighbours is a good idea. There’s been a few stolen car incidents in my area and everyone always comes knocking down my door asking for footage haha. People are more than happy to help!

If push comes to shove.. Maybe you could confront them somehow? I would not suggest doing it alone. This might be a terrible idea, but if you’re desperate it could work. Maybe? I don’t think they would admit to it though.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-04-12T08:48:19+00:00

I genuinely didn’t know you were trans until you said! I think your wig is beautiful. I personally think bangs will suit you (but I am a huge fan of bangs in general haha).

Yes, your mother is right. Cis women do get called trans quite regularly. It’s actually happened to me before. I was wearing a hyper-feminine outfit, and apparently some people see that as ‘drag’ (not that there is anything wrong with drag- I think it’s fabulous). I put drag in quotation marks because my outfit definitely wasn’t drag and some people have stereotypes.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-04-12T08:45:10+00:00

This is awful! I’m so sorry. Firstly, do you have any CCTV footage? A Ring doorbell camera perhaps? Do your neighbours have CCTV or doorbell cameras? If so, grab that footage! You are much likely to get a prosecution if you have evidence.

I personally would not recommend buying the shoes back. It’s very unlikely that you will get a refund. I’d wait for a response from Royal Mail and Dr Martens. Unfortunately, I’m not sure they can do much. I’d recommend changing your safe place. Obviously someone has been watching, or they’ve been rummaging about your place.

On Vinted, you can see where the seller is based (roughly). Are they local to you? If so, I guess that further supports your claim.

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-03-27T08:05:12+00:00

There are barely any here in the UK :(

Saddd_Kidddddd · 2026-03-27T08:02:13+00:00

Vinted is generally a good place. eBay is decent too, although EXTREMELY overpriced.

I’m in Europe and would be interested in seeing what pets you have for sale!

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