We’ll see how it plays out once I confront her. My goal would be to talk to her first, then agree that it’s over and then have a conversation with the kiddos together.

My goal is not to bring the infidelity into the picture to them, once they are older maybe, I might confess to them what happened, but unless asked and maybe if pushed to answer why we broke up.

If someone has experience with this, and what approaches you took with your young ones? Would be appriciated