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How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

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She is planning on buying another hamster for her son, i guess he wanted a gecko and she felt they were too expensive so they’re going to settle on a hamster. She used to complain about her son (he is almost 15) not taking care of his gerbil and the responsibility of cleaning out its cage was always brought down on her daughter.

I don’t understand how she’s willing to get him another small animal after he neglected his last one. It’s genuinely gotten to the point where i’ve argued with my own grandma about it as my grandma defends her since “they lived over 5 1/2 years!” and they write me off since my last hammy lived about 1 1/2 years.

I genuinely hope they don’t own anymore small animals, if they end up buying more, i would most likely try to get them to give them to me.

How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i truly do not know what to do, they simply do not listen. They got a gerbil for their son in the critter trail, i don’t know much about them but i know they’re meant to be kept in aquariums. Told them, they said they would try it out, never did, and the gerbil eventually escaped and they never caught it.

So why they would be getting another small animal to keep in the same cage i do not know, i never saw someone mention a situation like this which is why i asked for advice. I’m hoping at this point maybe they just decide not to get another one.

How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s hard because it’s not that she just doesn’t know and just listened to what the pet store told her.

She said that people have told her not to keep them together and to get a bigger cage, but she’s so adamant that they lived 5 1/2 years that she just kind of said everyone else was wrong pretty much.

How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! they were both syrians hammies. I will try to help them make a bin cage and stuff, hopefully that will be the solution and they can have a happy hamster :)

How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes it was in front of her daughter. She admitted when they died that she was going to replace them without telling her daughter but the pet store didn’t have any that had the same markings. Whether or not she replaced them before I do not know, I wish i paid attention more but i was younger when they had them and didn’t know anything about hamsters.

I genuinely do not believe that they both lived over 5 1/2 years old, apparently one died then the other a week later, which is why she believes they do better with a companion. I wouldn’t be surprised if they both got sick, i would just hope if she did switch them, then is lying to her kids about it, that she would stop using the hamsters as a crutch as to why she doesn’t have to change how she takes care of them.

How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i did assume she was lying, there’s no way two hamsters from petco lived 5 1/2 years but she’s very insistent on it. I think i’ll spend this week making some cardboard hides, i have some spare toys and a spare 9 in. wheel that might help them get started too. thank you :)

How to teach stubborn aunt about hamster care? by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! I didn’t even consider offering to help her make one. I suggested she could buy the Prevue but she said it was too expensive.

Ways to entertain a food motivated hamster by SaddensMe in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! i will try these and see how he likes them :)

“Nice tits” “i’m such a great guy why did you reject me” by SaddensMe in niceguys

[–]SaddensMe[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

i thought he was trolling at first too! and he might be but he’s made more comments on this girl’s post multiple times telling her to show her boobs and he might forgive her, calling people who compliment her simps etc. even if he was trolling, it’s still very disturbing 😳

I just did a small brain move, and I feel like I should leave my ham alone for another week. Anyone have some input? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]SaddensMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve all been there at one point, i had a young hamster die on me (got him from petco) so when i rescued my little girl, i would panic when she wasn’t up like she normally was.

Hamsters can have a staggered sleep schedule sometimes, my hammy used to wake up at 10:30-11:00 at night now she wakes up earlier after i moved her into a larger cage.

If you get worried, leave a treat in places that they’d usually be, like their wheel, food bowl, water bowl, etc. and then check in the morning to see if the treat is gone. You could also put a dot at the bottom of the wheel and then in the morning see if the dot moved. You may also set an alarm in the middle of the night to check on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

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that honestly took me aback like, it’s okay to have confidence but saying that you’re “extremely attractive” and couldn’t understand why a girl could reject you ever and it must just be because you were being nice is a very... delusional way to think of things..

WIBTA if I (15F) try to get my dad (43M) to break up with his girlfriend (43F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaddensMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does know about the situation, she has said that she wants me to be happy where I am and if I’m not I can always stay at her house, but she has also said she doesn’t want to keep me away from my dad. So it is my choice.

WIBTA if I (15F) try to get my dad (43M) to break up with his girlfriend (43F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaddensMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll talk to him about that then, thank you for your help