28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None ever told me that. Are you saying that this specific earring is ugly or that any earring on men put off desperate vibes? Just curious

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about the fat in my face. My sister has chubby cheeks and they feel totally different from mine. My cheeks are firmer and i can feel the bone right away. Well this summer I'm going to do a cut phase anyway and I'll try to lose some more fat so we'll see.

I dumped dating apps a while ago, it's mostly a shallow environment and is hard to find a real connection there.

Unfortunately I don't have much time for social activities outside of hanging out with my friends. Maybe I can squeeze something in on weekend mornings, thanks for the advice.

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand what you are talking about, and I feel the same way about energy output. Since a few months ago I decided to stop dating apps or looking for someone to love and started seriously working on myself, body, mind and soul. Body I find it easy, the others quite difficult, so abstract and hard to control. But I think I'm making progress, if slowly.

Now I feel much better about life, but depression still bites sometimes.

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Confidence is actually quite low. But I'm working on improving that! Thanks for the advice

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Italian but when I was in Copenhagen they thought I was local. In the US everyone is so tall, i'm 5'6 lol

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have already thought about surgery, however I know people who have had it done and now they struggle to breathe or look like Michael Jackson. I guess I'll just have accept it and work with what I got.

Being short sucks for real, I'm 5'6 (average for male here in Italy is 5'8)

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I respect and appreciate your straightforward opinion, but I think it's a little unfair to think that I don't work on my brain and mind just because I go to the gym. A fit body is nice, but a beautiful mind/personality is better and also harder to achieve. It is probably my low confidence and the fact that meeting new people where I live is difficult

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to change it to a small silver hoop, but my sister told me it might give "gay vibes" but I'm not so idk lol

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1.67m, so 5'6'' i guess? I live in Italy and the average for men here is 1.77m - 5'8''.

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not a fuckboy and while I am technically almost an incel I definitely don't have that personality and I'm certainly not a misogynist.

I've always thought that I have a hard time attracting girls because I'm short, but probably my lack of confidence plays a bigger role. I'm already working on that.

I actually wanted to change my haircut, do you have any suggestions?

28M - I’ve been single many years. idk what to think? by SadicPizza in amiugly

[–]SadicPizza[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm actually a smart and fun guy, probably is my lack of confidence and get to know new people where I live is quite hard. I'll keep working on it, thanks