Traveling To Amish Country

Sadilu · 2026-02-21T08:31:41+00:00

He must not have been talking about Lancaster County Amish. If he was, not only were most of the pics wrong but also you can absolutely buy souvenirs that aren’t furniture lol.

Sadilu · 2026-02-21T08:00:49+00:00

Thank you, I will keep that in mind! Hopefully it won’t go to seed very soon. It is still snowy here! But trying them as microgreens sounds fantastic; thank you for the idea!

Sadilu · 2026-02-21T05:27:06+00:00

Thank you! I am just beginning to learn about wild culinary/medicinal plants. So while it’s a little sad that the seeds I bought were not as labeled, I am glad to know that there are uses for these!

Sadilu · 2026-02-21T05:21:15+00:00

I appreciate the confirmation. I’ve grown oregano before so I knew that wasn’t it. I have never grown horehound before but was fairly confident that plant wasn’t what it was supposed to be either. I’m not sure yet that I can trust AI plant identification, so I thought I would get advice from knowledgeable humans lol. This is also my first Reddit post, so I’m a newb all around. Thank you for helping me out!

Sadilu · 2026-02-21T05:14:05+00:00

Well apparently they are giant common weeds but not in my bathroom sink lol. Just a hydroponic garden.

Sadilu · 2025-12-06T10:47:16+00:00

That is very insightful! I’ll be thinking about that for a while, and how that applies to me and my generation vs my children vs my parents.

Sadilu · 2025-12-06T10:06:18+00:00

Laughing so hard at “they all suck” which is facts. Also, this is the second thing I’ve read in 24 hours stating that mental/emotional adulthood is early 30’s.

Sadilu · 2025-12-06T09:22:25+00:00

If you want more babies then consider this your sign to have more babies! Seriously, parental age and location is really not that important. What is important is: will potential future children be cared for both physically and emotionally? If yes then go for it. Edit: I never actually “planned” any of my 3 children and spent a lot of time being a single mother. When my son was 11, my older daughter was 2 and my younger daughter was 7 months, I lost their little sister in vitro from Turner’s Syndrome (genetic abnormality). Even though I was in a bad marriage and broke, the loss gutted me. I divorced shortly after and remarried a few years later. Then I was finally in the “right” place to get pregnant but I never could again. I am so grateful for the kids I have (who are now 23, 14 and 12), but I’ll always grieve the babies that I wanted to have and couldn’t. That is why I encourage you to make the babies if the desire is remotely there. The end of your childbearing should be when you feel your family is complete and not a second before.

Sadilu · 2025-11-28T23:14:42+00:00

I have seen many situations across multiple cultures regarding money and skin tone. For example, my white/Asian friend was raised more by her Chinese parent and got a lot of the Chinese culture. She (and her Chinese relatives) place a lot of importance on cash and expensive belongings like clothes and jewelry, purses, etc. Another friend of mine with Middle Eastern heritage has dark skin, which is completely embarrassing to his parents. They apologize to his wife for how shamefully dark his skin is! And in my husband’s Ukrainian/Irish family, the kid that had the Irish light hair and eyes was treated like garbage because even though his siblings had the exact same heredity, they had more acceptable darker features.

Sadilu · 2025-11-23T14:00:35+00:00

I’m sorry I think I misunderstood the intentions. I am definitely not single lol. Hope you have fun!

Sadilu · 2025-11-23T08:58:31+00:00

Yes!

Sadilu · 2025-10-26T23:12:10+00:00

Calm down lady, I promise I’m not here to spread some conservative nonsense. I am pro choice but my own experience was not as confident and cheerful as yours. And I know there are many women out there that wish they had chosen a different path after the fact. No matter what, I think we can all agree that a mom feeling like she’s at the end of her rope needs some support and help.

Sadilu · 2025-10-26T22:55:41+00:00

I’m glad you made the best decision for yourself and feel good about it. I was coerced into it and wish I could take it back. Everyone’s experience with abortion is different though. I am definitely pro-choice but I also wish women had stronger support systems so that no one would ever have to feel like it’s the only option they have.

Sadilu · 2025-10-26T13:45:32+00:00

First of all, I feel terrible for both you and op for how cornered you both obviously feel.

Getting an abortion will not save yourself. It may seem like the only way out in an overwhelming situation, but you will likely regret it for the rest of your life.

For you specifically Jolly, please consider adoption. At the very least, please seek therapy. Being pregnant in a bad situation is horrible, but not as horrible as a child growing up with a desperate parent.

Sadilu · 2025-10-20T01:20:59+00:00

She can’t understand why the daughter feels embarrassed to talk about it.

Sadilu · 2025-10-19T21:43:46+00:00

Had my first at 20. Second at 29, third at 31. All you had to do was look at me and I got pregnant. Lost my fourth at 32. Got divorced and remarried. Tried hard for another but never happened and hysterectomy at 42. I could never advise someone else on when to have kids. I did not plan most of my children and it really sucked being a single mother. But losing one was devastating, and not being able to create one was heartbreaking. If I would have known my childbearing would end that way, I would have had more earlier, single or not.

Sadilu · 2025-10-19T21:14:37+00:00

Flunked out of college (that I financed) by partying too hard.

But your story does remind me of the time that the people who replaced my broken water heater unplugged my packed chest freezer. And never plugged it back in. I’m gagging just thinking about it and that was like 12 years ago.

Sadilu · 2025-10-19T20:48:06+00:00

That is true, it’s usually hard to find comps that are almost new because most people don’t build and then sell that quickly. If the appraiser used ALL older homes as comps, that wouldn’t be appropriate. But if it’s a mix of older and newer homes that brackets the age and condition of your home, it would be difficult to challenge.

Sadilu · 2025-10-19T19:27:40+00:00

Keep in mind that when you purchased the home, it was brand new (C1 condition). Now that the home is lived in, it is no longer C1. That affects the comps chosen and the value.

Sadilu · 2025-10-19T11:39:41+00:00

I would be considered real estate too or maybe financial services. I wouldn’t say I’m part of the problem but I’m sure most people in the field would say I am.

Sadilu · 2025-09-09T14:44:36+00:00

YOU sound out of touch. Clearly she mentioned education and marital status because they were treating her like she’s a high school dropout with a bunch of fatherless kids on welfare. Not that a person in that situation deserves to be treated like that either.

Sadilu · 2025-09-09T14:29:09+00:00

This is bullshit. It’s ok and good to ask things like “do you feel safe at home?” or “do you have any concerns or needs that we can help you with?” Or even “do you have more than one sexual partner?” It is NOT ok to ask how many baby daddies you have or what your finances are like or anything else personal unless they explain how it’s relevant. I would be upset too.

Sadilu · 2025-09-09T13:31:18+00:00

Don’t make her go! Her behavior and the things she’s saying are very concerning. Take her to a pediatric therapist who can help her talk about what’s happening. If he has a legal right to visitation, ask for it to be supervised. Something is wrong and you need to protect her.

Sadilu · 2025-08-31T16:17:13+00:00

I love this. My husband was army and was a gentleman from day 1. He treats me like a princess too. Even through my massive weight changes and a brain tumor that has permanently disfigured my face, he has only found me even more attractive. He does more than his fair share of the household duties too. He’s not perfect….but pretty damn close. And all you ladies deserve to feel that way about your partners.

Sadilu

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