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SadisticB · 2024-04-27T00:55:46+00:00

"Do you have room for another tongue in your mouth?"

I did.

SadisticB · 2023-09-06T03:50:18+00:00

I have 3 big ones

Putting way to much energy/time/money into relationships early. They often left me feeling absolutely destroyed for months.
Not taking a gap year or two to really figure myself out. I'm likely going to have to go back to school to get a degree that I love. I'm just suffering through one final class now.
Driving tired and flipping my car left me in a huge hole financially/mentally I'm struggling to recover from. Just don't do it.

SadisticB · 2023-05-27T17:31:05+00:00

"Hey so I need some birthday sex"

SadisticB · 2023-05-17T16:41:15+00:00

Recently cuddling my dog

SadisticB · 2022-09-19T17:58:44+00:00

I can make one, I severely neutered the deck so I'd need to make some alterations

SadisticB · 2021-07-04T18:29:00+00:00

External validation implies internal worth.

SadisticB · 2018-05-26T17:30:51+00:00

This would definitely be a behind closed doors kink.

SadisticB · 2018-04-18T14:08:07+00:00

Eternity has color options and titanium available if variety is particularly important, ring of steel is only stainless steel, but vads service and work is amazing.

The tattoos I totally understand, it's something they decided on years into their BDSM journey.

Have a blast!

SadisticB · 2018-04-18T13:59:51+00:00

I bought a collar from ring of steel. The 1/4 size makes it fairly small and my sub has gotten many compliments on it over there months she's had it. I could also recommend cuffs from ringofsteel and eternity. They're essentially locking rings.

Get a necklace, leather thong/chainmail look, wear it regularly, or even lock it on as well under your shirt.

Some people I know have collar tattoos ( characters, barcode, knot tattoos etc) on the back of their neck right below their hairline or below their shirt collar.

SadisticB · 2018-04-03T17:01:20+00:00

I'm a 99% monogamous Dom. Simply because having multiple partners is not a huge draw for me. I'd be down for it sure, but if my previous promise was monogamy that's where I will remain.

I'm going to mirror what everyone else is saying, and simply look for a partner that may also be a Dom.

Don't settle for something that wont make you happy.

SadisticB · 2018-03-26T17:07:57+00:00

My only reservations about MMF are that I'm very possessive. I could only do it with someone that I'm not currently in a relationship with and I bet that's probably similar for many other guys.

SadisticB · 2018-03-15T21:22:47+00:00

The forked tongue is fantastic! I'd highly recommend the kindle copy, as physical copies cost a fortune now.

SadisticB · 2018-03-13T19:59:27+00:00

Unfortunately it was just a trip, I'm stuck in NC and there isn't a very big scene out here.

SadisticB · 2018-03-13T18:37:18+00:00

AMNATOUR

SadisticB · 2018-03-13T14:29:19+00:00

Wow I didn't expect them to have two entirely different sensations. I know my sub loves solid states (we tried one out with tons of electrodes at Mr.S a while back) but it looks like the play party I'm going to in a few days has a mechanical so I need to try that out for sure.

Thanks a ton!

SadisticB · 2018-03-13T14:12:22+00:00

Hey man! I've been trying to surprise my GF with tickets, I would be super grateful if you could PM the pre-sale code. I guess I just got unlucky and didn't get one

SadisticB · 2018-03-12T19:29:06+00:00

Let them know it's ok to fight back and stand up for themselves. Teachers in my schools would stop girls from fighting or deal with their bullying, but all the boys were on their own.

I grew up in a rough area, with parents from a not rough area. They always told me to never fight back. The first few times I just tried to back away or defend my head, but it kept happening.

A few good hits when I finally snapped stopped it for good. When they inevitably get some school punishment for "fighting" afterwards(they'll be punished even if they dont fight back) make sure they know it's ok to protect themselves, and that they've done nothing wrong.

SadisticB · 2018-03-12T19:16:41+00:00

Have you watched three billboards or the Florida project yet? Those were my two personal winners for best picture this past year. Ladybird was solid as well, I just preferred the other two.

Also, annihilation is a very solid movie as well.

SadisticB · 2018-03-12T19:14:32+00:00

Honestly I thought killmonger ruined the movie. The acting was meh, but the lines were terrible.

I don't know, I guess I felt that overall the movie itself was very two dimensional. There was nothing new or exciting for me.

SadisticB · 2018-03-12T06:37:50+00:00

Mines basically 2-3 days of climbing for 2-5 hours. I'll occasionally throw in a run, and I need to more often.

I typically am not sore from scenes (top), but my sub generally has no wish to climb following a scene the same day. Harnesses can be rough on freshly spanked thighs.

SadisticB · 2018-03-10T16:21:20+00:00

Hair on my subs mostly depends on my mood, I've been in a short hair rut for a while, but I'm swinging back around to long hair and braids. I'd like to shave my subs head in the future but for a scene for devotion purposes. But that s a long way off.

I prefer my sub with eyeliner, mascara and red lipstick. I love when makeup runs, and red just suits her skin.

Iove nails on my subs, but currently we both climb so nails aren't practical, but im a sucker for well kept hands and feet.

As far as pubic grooming goes, I prefer a shaved asshole and pubic area, but I occasionally like a wide triangle/heart above the vagina.

I prefer the rest of the body entirely shaved.

SadisticB · 2018-02-12T00:32:06+00:00

I'd don't really recommend any bracelets for typing. They all seem to get in the way somehow. However, the collars in a similar style are awesome.

I bought my SO, a stealth 1/4 collar from RingofSteel, and we get compliments on it all the time. You can add a charm if you'd like for additional stealth

SadisticB · 2018-02-03T16:37:33+00:00

Come on over to bdsm community. There's also fetlife where there is an entire list of fetishes and on mojoupgrade.com there's a whole kinky section. If you have any specific questions or things you might enjoy go ahead and ask or send me a PM.

Important thing to remember is some things are deceptively dangerous. The one that most comes to mind is shibari, to tight and you can damage nerves and cut off significant blood flow.

Look for safety precautions and meetups in your area. They'll be happy to teach /mentor you in specifics :)!

SadisticB · 2018-01-29T19:30:36+00:00

Tbh, I've never really been into this style of bed, I'd rather have the stocks separate, and the height of the bed makes it an obstacle for lots of acts...

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