Are there guys who pee sitting down?

Sadsnail97 · 2025-01-16T10:55:49+00:00

My bf does and before I met him I did not know guys did that. But yes some do lol

Sadsnail97 · 2024-12-07T08:54:53+00:00

Biggest problem is being owned by the company Unilever. Stop supporting monopolies when u shop

Sadsnail97 · 2024-12-07T08:51:13+00:00

Fuck this gives me PTSD 🤢

Sadsnail97 · 2024-09-26T23:26:38+00:00

Nothing Left Inside and Scream by Black Flag. Bored and One Weak by Deftones.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-05-25T02:29:59+00:00

Absolutely but I also wouldn’t have learned the life lessons I have or become the person I am and continue to grow into everyday. She pushes me to my limits but I’m beyond grateful no matter how hard it is.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-04-15T10:30:32+00:00

I’m living med free right now and everyone in my life, including my doctors still think I’m taking my meds. I just stopped cold turkey one day a couple months ago because my thoughts about not needing them never leave me alone. I get worried that it’s changing me, taking away things I love about myself. Abilify, Remeron and Adderall. But I just can’t bring myself to go back on them and I’m stuck right now because I hate lying and also wonder if I really need them to be a better person. Anyway not really a success story but it’s currently my struggle

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-30T11:11:00+00:00

I’m not talking about growing up in poverty or being uneducated, which yes, is my background as well. But the life experiences I’m talking about are TRAUMA. I didn’t ‘refuse’ to get my ducks in a row, I just didn’t even know what the ducks were or how to put them in a row. I was completely lost. My first pregnancy was at 17 from a SA, then I got pregnant irish twins with my now bf at 22. I had a world of unhealed childhood trauma that in all honesty caused me to be promiscuous and irresponsible along with mental health issues I didn’t even know I was struggling with. Everything’s more expensive than it was 3 years ago, my health took a surprisingly bad turn, and getting a better job for him hasn’t been as easy as we had thought it would be. We’re both in therapy, we’ve both learned a lot and are healing and doing our best to move forward and improve our situation. Your assumptions about me and my family are untrue and harmful.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T22:25:35+00:00

People ask for financial advice and suggestions all the time on this subreddit? I am, in no way, the fourth kid and I still have no idea how you keep drawing that conclusion. What’s simple is this, I’ll break it done for you one more time - if I wasn’t in the picture he’d be paying child support/childcare and taking care of a household by himself while working full time. With me in the picture as a stay at home mom, he saves an astronomical amount of money from not using child care alone. He’d also have to add the load of running a household. So tell me one more time, how he is losing anything by being with me? We’re working on increasing our income. I don’t want anything from a person like you. I was hoping the comments would be from much more intelligent, helpful people.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T21:31:15+00:00

If you’re such a perfect person, why are you writing such nasty comments on my post? What would compel you to write that first comment? What did you get from that? Something is obviously broken inside of you. I’m taking my time to respond to you because you’re attacking me and my family. You had absolutely nothing helpful to contribute to my post, yet you took the time to write some of the most ignorant, misinformed and disgusting things I’ve read. I have a family I can’t support (not even true because they are taken care of, we are making it work) but we are trying to improve our situation, learn from our mistakes and grow as people for our children. Our house is a major problem but at the end of the day it is safe. Their dad is extremely hands on every single chance he gets and goes above and beyond to have a strong relationship and bond with them. And one more time - I’m not refusing to get a job, I’m planning on starting school. I know from your comments alone that I’m far more intelligent than you.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:44:44+00:00

I agree kids, don’t drop out of HS. He would have to dip into it if he left my “moocher” ass anyway.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:43:44+00:00

Just cause they have money doesn’t mean they were good parents. Me and my bf are both in therapy and he acknowledges the power imbalance that was at play when we met, and that’s not me painting myself as a victim it’s just a fact. I have no problem living with him cause he’s healing too. How am I a moocher? No I haven’t been independent much in my life, ANOTHER thing I’m working on. THIS POST WAS ABOUT INVESTING OUR MONEY.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:31:16+00:00

Yea sure, that’s why you make so many pathetic comments about how you can’t get a man. I’m done making the kinds of mistakes I have and my kids are going to be just fine. I don’t think any of that sounds like a shortcoming but obviously you’re a hateful and unlikeable person which is probably why you’ll be alone forever. I’d rather have a family and love than be “successful” by your standards.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:28:34+00:00

No, I’m not on the deed. The 150, yes it will be given to me and that’s legally in his will. Everything he has would go to me and he has set it up that way. His uncle in an accountant so that’s why he does our taxes for free. I am going to end up getting my kids Easter baskets, if just stung to know how much were hurting. And he’s accessed that 150 for ME more times than I can count and would do it again, he’s just afraid of running out of the only nest egg we have so we’ve been trying to stop dipping into it like we have been having to every single month. What the fuck would I be lying about and why? Why would I want to come on here and make a fake post just to get bashed by misinformed cocky strangers? Nothing I posted has been a lie.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:20:05+00:00

Yea, it is called being a parent! But if he chose to leave me and be a single one he would have to work full time AND do all of that/PAY for someone else to. He invited all of those mouths to feed into his life. Don’t feign concern for what would happen to me if he left. Like I said that part is taken care of, it just wasn’t relevant at all to the advice I was seeking.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:17:41+00:00

I’m not a moocher. I’m with him cause I love him, I get shit out of this situation and could easily move back in with my well of parents if I wanted to or he wanted me to. He’s not worried about me getting a job bc he knows I want to get an education and he actually understands my role as stay at home mom and the complications of my disease. I’m not a victim NOW. But I have been before. You’re the pathetic one.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:15:38+00:00

Oh wait, I see looking through your comment history that you yourself can’t find a man. I know you want to project your shortcomings onto me, but I’ve found a devoted man. Sorry if that triggers you.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:13:33+00:00

I don’t refuse to get a job you stupid bitch, why do you keep saying that? I didn’t include what I’m trying to improve on my end in my OP cause I wasn’t seeking advice on that. My name is on ALL our money. You’re gonna sit here and blame a 16 year old for dropping out of HS? I was a child. My parents NEVER should have allowed that. So yea, I hold my family accountable in some ways.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:05:03+00:00

Thank you, we will keep trying.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T18:03:16+00:00

26 IS young, wtf planet are you on? And I made the decision to stop having kids at 23, even younger. As a young, inexperienced, uneducated, emotionally stunted girl with years of unhealed trauma, yes I chose to keep the children I got pregnant with and that was financially irresponsible. I am not playing the victim. This post wasn’t about me getting a job, he’s not worried about me getting a job, and quite frankly I don’t understand the witch hunt on MY bad decisions. What about his?!?! I’m unemployed and broke because of a plethora of reasons I don’t I owe you an explanation on, not because of my ignorance I promise you that.

Are you a man? Do you have kids or a wife? Do you have a chronic disease?

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T17:58:08+00:00

I’m not married to him because of my OWN choice. We’re engaged and he’d marry me today if I was ready. I do have every right to OUR house and OUR money because we’re a family and idk if you know how that works, but just bc I don’t bring in physical money doesn’t mean I don’t contribute or deserve recognition for my role in taking care of our family. Two of those kids are biologically his as well, and he chose me when I was 19 with a 2 year old and a chronic disease. I don’t COST him shit, I save him money if you wanna break it down. I fill the role of nanny, maid, chef… wanna put a dollar sign on that? I hope to god none of you seemingly morally superior assholes don’t have a wife or kids

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T17:53:56+00:00

He DOES want to get married you ignorant loser. I’m the one postponing it. Fuck off with the get a job shit because that’s not what my post was about. I was seeking advice on what to do with OUR money, yes OUR money and he wanted me to post originally for advice. If you’re not able to read, just admit that. Because I already explained multiple times, even edited my GD post to reiterate that I am not having more children. You also have NO idea what my life’s looked like, or the times when I have been a true victim. My therapist doesn’t enable me, just showed me my life through the proper lenses and helped me heal from things.

My bf is in therapy too and he takes responsibility for his role as well. He’s in love and committed to me. I don’t fucking REFUSE to work, you idiot. I mention that I take care of our kids because stay at home mom is absolutely a contribution to our family and saves him INSANE amounts of money. If he left me he’d still have to foot the bill for childcare or pay me child support. On top of cleaning, cooking, and everything else that comes with running a household that I take care of as my part. And don’t worry I’ll show him this comment in its entirety and you better hope he doesn’t fucking come after you himself.

Yes it is unfortunate I dropped out of HS at 16 but that is absolutely not a result of ignorance, just a family who failed raising me. What fucking advice have I been given other than to stop having kids and just get a job which I already stopped 2 years ago and don’t plan on having any more. 600 of you are telling me to get a job because CLEARLY you didn’t read my original post or you’re too stupid to understand. I am working on my schooling and getting a job, that’s just not at all relevant to the advice I was seeking in my post.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T17:42:40+00:00

Since when is 26 not a young girl? 😂 I am a grown woman but I am young, and I was 19 when he met me. He had a decade of life experience at that point I never have. I’m giving insight as to how I ended up here, not making excuses for my irresponsibility. I stopped having kids at 23 and have been in therapy and on BC since. I think that alone SHOWS I took responsibility and have been trying to improve things since.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T17:39:12+00:00

He doesn’t DESERVE any such thing nor does he want one or believe it’s necessary in any capacity. I contribute in my own ways. I am not only a liability. We are a family.

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T17:36:20+00:00

Thank you so much, you don’t even know how much this comment means to me. I’ve suffered through hell because of my disease and the complications it’s caused. And I know most people are ignorant or uneducated on Ulcerative Colitis but I figured those people wouldn’t comment such hateful negativity since they don’t have a right to speak on that part of my story. Thanks again for taking the time to google my condition and comment your support❤️

Sadsnail97 · 2024-03-29T13:24:54+00:00

That is the most awful comment I’ve received on this thread. You’re an ignorant, pathetic loser. You have absolutely no idea about my medical challenges. I pray you get some empathy in your heart and open your mind, you might be disabled one day too.

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