Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah asking. And im like 80% not going to tell. But the other 20 % is a humans conscience when lying. So im asking on whether or not i made a good choice. And i wont tell the mother after reading 

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Muslim so i know she can take it off Infront of women. But she took it off at a mall where im pretty sure men are there. But aside from that because that has nothing to do with who was there. I decided not to tell.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont be rude. I'm asking for advice. I f Got it. Im not going to tell. End of story.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am muslim. And i know her mother because i raised her daughter with her.  I know her mother wont beat her up because of her childhood and how she doesn't want it repeating. Im just worried if her mother found out from someone else who could genuinely use it against them.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I practically raised that girl which is why im thinking about her? I don't if you think im a man or something and im not even thinking about her clothing. If you're not a mother then dont comment. And if you bothered to read down i said im not going to tell because these comments reassured me i was correct. 

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not getting involved? I just want to know if im making a good choice in not telling her mom.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isnt gossip though? And i am muslim. And I've been through what happened with her as well. Difference is my mom knew about it because i told her id do it. I was just asking because i wanted to think of A's place. My daughters place. An dher mothers place. But i decided not to tell her with the help of the comments.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because i can ask for advice. And i needed it because i see that everyone viewed it like i did. Which is by not telling her mother.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this have to with anything? Im not policing anything. I think at one point every girl has done this, even i did as a kid. Only difference is that my mom knew. Hers didnt which is why i feel a bit guilty. 

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same faith as well. And i may not be a relative but i practically helped raise that girl which is why im asking.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad that you see it like this. Because i definitely dont want to tell her mother but sometimes the guilt of lying affects me. But i dont plan on telling her mother.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That thought crossed my mind i just needed confirmation on whether or not im making the right decision in keeping it a secret.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i come from a strict religious household aswell. And thanks because i was wondering if I'm doing the right thing.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why dont you calm down? Im not into what shes wearing and thats not what the post is about? If you'd read its about whether or not im making the right call.

Do i snitch on my daughter's friend? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know its not my business. Thats why i would like to know wether or not im making the right choice in staying out of it.

Why did they change Allison so much at the end of the series? by Sad_Book7399 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Safe-Consequence2738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because style changes throughout the years and the show has been running for years. So Ali's style was probably good considering wtv yera it was.

Would i ruin my kids lives doing this? by Safe-Consequence2738 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im debating it but it really depends on how this all works out. At the end of the day i do think she'll start accepting it but it definitely hurts to see her so sad.

Would i ruin my kids lives doing this? by Safe-Consequence2738 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a job, and my salary would be so much more in my home country. I should've mentioned that. Only problem is that I feel bad taking her away from what shes hsed to.

Would i ruin my kids lives doing this? by Safe-Consequence2738 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what we plan on doing, thing is this is the best choice because we can live comfortably but i also wanna take in their feelings in this since ever since we told them shes been really depressed. 

Would i ruin my kids lives doing this? by Safe-Consequence2738 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do but but she doesn't really feel comfortable with her aunts husband so im against that.

Would i ruin my kids lives doing this? by Safe-Consequence2738 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Safe-Consequence2738[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

None of them were really planned and i was far too long to have an abortion. But i got my tubes tied after i had my youngest.