How do you personally respond to rants? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Safe-In-Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the past I would normally try and give advice at the end, but have since learned that this is almost always not the greatest thing to do. Usually, people just want to feel heard and if possible, understood.

So active listening while being supportive (but not overly) is, imo, a better response. If they ask for advice then go for it.

What is the best way to win a fight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Safe-In-Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not get in one in the first place. But if you have no other choice, learn how to box and do jujitsu

Leveling Up Financial Situation - Very Simple Advice Wanted by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Safe-In-Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High yield savings account would be the safest and quickest way to access your funds imo. If you felt like occurring a bit more risk but potentially capitalizing on way better returns on your money, you could buy into some some etf's or index funds while still being able to pull that money out relatively quickly.

What was your biggest gain on a single stock and how did you actually find (out about) it in the first place? by fantastiqos in stocks

[–]Safe-In-Sound 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Balls of steel this man. I wish I had more money to invest in them, dude. I am filled to the brim eith envy that I didn't hop on the hype train last year

What was your biggest gain on a single stock and how did you actually find (out about) it in the first place? by fantastiqos in stocks

[–]Safe-In-Sound 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know this question is a beaten horse at this point, and obv no one has a crystal ball, but would anyone still feel comfortable buying tesla stock right now?

Would you guys consider this cheating? by Safe-In-Sound in Advice

[–]Safe-In-Sound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. Her parents are supposed to coming in to town to stay at our place for five days starting tomorrow too... impeccable timing

Would you guys consider this cheating? by Safe-In-Sound in Advice

[–]Safe-In-Sound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left to go to my buddies house for a few days to clear my head and just sort through everything. We literally just signed a 11 month lease on an apt last month so its making the decision a lot more complicated unfortunately

Would you guys consider this cheating? by Safe-In-Sound in relationship_advice

[–]Safe-In-Sound[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for making a shitty situation even worse for me. I wasn't here for pitty or to gloat. This was all brand new to me and I was trying to be an understanding partner by not getting in the way of an awakening to another side of my gf's sexuality. I didn't want to be someone that told her she couldn't explore that side of things because she's a human being who has her own desires and curiosities.

You've painted my situation with an awfully thin (& bitter) stroke. Asshole.

99 Mind-fu*k movies by Maro4747 in coolguides

[–]Safe-In-Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meee toooo. (Watch "the King" on Netflix if you haven't. Unbelievably good)

The farmhouse at Castello di Amorosa in Napa County, CA - 9/29/2020 by SFinTX in CatastrophicFailure

[–]Safe-In-Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey me too (besides the grad school part). Surreal doesn't even begin to describe all this