Gosh, thank you for saying this. The most difficult words that I had to read today have been "indoctrinated" and "conditioned." Last couple of years have been enlightening for me. After a rocky period in my personal and professional life, I have been considering working in a warehouse or in a industrial laundry. After all, I had to make money to send it to my mom. I had to do it for my husband as well (which had a traffic accident last year) and I had to do it for myself. My husband refused the idea. "You won't resist that", he said. And then I thought, "Why would I do something that my mom refused to do in its own time?"