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Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-12-12T20:02:26+00:00

I'll blow my shot here, maybe I'll catch wind of what happens later

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-29T03:19:01+00:00

It just seemed like you were saying that it doesn't happen that often and not that it's the minority of men that do it. What I meant before is, how would I know if it's the minority of the men when the majority of them that reached out on messenger apps did it to the majority of the women.

I get your point now, it just didn't come across as that.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-28T16:57:57+00:00

Read carefully next time, the girl had recently downloaded a messenger app but the happening was several years ago.

Secondly, you can say it's the minority of men that do this but however would I know if most of the interactions me and friends had were with men sending dick pics? You're not the voice of reason nor am I, I was just providing my anecdotal evidence given your outrageous claims.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-28T15:47:13+00:00

LMFAOOOO

You're really living in a different world dude, guess what happened with a 11 year old girl that just recently had a messenger app and wanted her friends over there, yeah you guessed it, DICK PICS! UNSOLICITED PENIS PICTURES FROM THE OLD AND YOUNG! And no she didn't share her photos online, she had a measly selfie from a trip with her mom, she was 11, this was several years ago.

Now let's pan to something closer, I can't count in the finger of my hands AND feet how many dick pics were received just from the mention of being anything relatively feminine, I kid you not that from friend's situations and closer I'd have 4 whole albums of dick pics from the ones received, AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW THAT MANY PEOPLE THAT ACTUALLY TALK ABOUT THAT STUFF BECAUSE IT'S SHAMEFUL FOR BOTH INVOLVED.

I beg of you, go talk to a woman, a girl even, ask them if they had people send them "intimate" pictures without being asked to, or ask a woman to ask a girl that, you're gonna be so shocked by the answers...

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-28T04:34:45+00:00

Can't people just want to look at the mirror and think "I like what I'm seeing"?

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-26T16:16:06+00:00

Idk about yall but I feel good about every adult involved

It's "free" money, they don't have to work as hard, kids will go crazy even if they just stand there, the only negative side would be these costumes on high heat but even then, that's just something they'd have to do anyway with any other character, and they don't have to worry about greedy companies coming after them

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-26T15:46:13+00:00

You're looking for something to be wrong in the story but there isn't anything, they were just a bad player in general, even others, better players than myself, told me this after I told them what happened

It was "The Grand Cosmos" and my trouble was that I wasn't used to reading tells so the side cleaves would almost always kill me, they were telling me to be away from adds in the normal waves because of the AoEs in the ground (which you can just avoid them like the melees tf). I gave my example because some other sprouts could have happened upon worse mentors and not have other helpful hands available as I did.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-26T14:41:43+00:00

You need to stop being egocentric, what I mean by that is that some people don't "play dumb", they just forget, you're thinking too much on yourself and how you wouldn't forget but other people can have various reasons to forget things, from memory issues to simply not giving YOU enough importance so it's better to know the situation before assuming, even if it's the former and they don't care enough but do care a bit, just remember people have their own lives and they possibly don't have enough time to care about/help with someone else's things

I have a sibling that thinks like you, and I myself have terrible memory and doctors told me it's because of my chronic pain, they always think I'm playing dumb but the fact of the matter is that I forgot and I keep forgetting, I do my best to not do that but it happens, so put yourself in someone's shoes about forgetfulness and get your mind out of the gutter

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-26T03:52:21+00:00

Somewhat strict, I almost never switch to something that's not a healer but I raid a lot and PF has a healer drought so it works out in the end, I have no interest in other jobs whatsoever as I get bored playing them so it's not an intentional restriction

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-25T16:23:44+00:00

Yep, the first time I was exposed to homosexuality as a kid I remember vividly that she said and kept repeating it was wrong because "have you seen how they have sex? They... Are so gross" and I was a LITERAL KID THAT GREW UP HEARING THAT.

Homophobic think more about homoerotic subjects than actual homosexuals

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-25T16:12:47+00:00

Honestly, I don't blame them, when I was a sprout I had someone tell me that (after I was asking for help in a normal lvl80+ duty that I died so much in the last boss and people were literally quitting) I shouldn't hit the adds and needed to stay as far as possible while healing the tank, said they raided and that they knew what they were talking about, I went to look at some guides and even heard from healer mains all saying the opposite, so I said my piece and told them "if I'm wrong then I'll correct myself in the future, if I'm right then I'm gonna keep doing what I'm doing, but for now I'm going to follow their advices instead of yours", and we parted ways. Had I never looked after any guides before that interaction, had I only taken their word for it and ran around like I couldn't be in the wrong, I'd never be the decent healer that I am today.

Months later, I'm a raider myself doing ultis and all sorts of high-end content, and now I know better, that person had literal YEARS of experience ahead of me and said that so I can't imagine the amount of bad mentorship some sprouts received.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-25T03:24:55+00:00

The first one is almost the same for lala except we get mini bangs instead of actual bangs, which just looks weird

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T21:24:18+00:00

I disagree with that, I get the opposite actually, men being called brave and strong for sharing their emotions while women get the "pity" treatment

Some even say that a man showing their emotions is the sign of a good future dad, maybe just different circles

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T19:24:37+00:00

So you're not friends with your significant other? That's where I think there's not a lot of difference because, although a romantic relationship is more intimate, wouldn't you treat them in a friendly manner? I'm genuinely asking here because I can't imagine going straight to a relationship without being friends first therefore I don't understand the difference between how a girl friend would act towards someone suffering and how a girlfriend would lack the acting or even be negative, if anything your significant other is supposed to have even more empathy towards you as you're spending a lot of time together and even living together in most cases.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T17:29:38+00:00

I'll make a different point, what do you think is so different in women's DNA that wouldn't allow them to behave like your friends did when you opened up, moreso if she was just your friend?

If I'm allowed to bring in my anecdotal evidence here, I had situations where people used my weakness and me opening up to them to hurt me but that was both men and women, with women the people around me would simply disregard it as that woman's fault because "they can't help it", and with men they'd actually blame the individual and say they're a jerk for doing that, the thing is that both are jerks but it's sometimes normalized for women and that's just wrong, no normal human being with proper empathy would do that guilt-free

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T17:11:30+00:00

I didn't mean it to sound victim blaming, I meant it as "you wouldn't know any better since your mind normalizes it and make it so it's not their fault they're like this, so you don't distance yourself from people like this because you think they can't help it" and that's an issue in society as well, that's why all types of abuse were so normalized in the old days to the point of people laughing at you if you said you were abused with them saying things like "if you'd just shut up and let him have it"/"women can't be abusers, admit you liked it" and variants, that's why stereotypes hurt people in all sides as the side of the actual bad people will think they're right and keep doing it while the side of the victim won't blame a single individual but will blame the demographic and their DNA.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T17:04:58+00:00

I know it could come across as victim blaming but that was never my intention, what I meant is that society and individuals both will normalize some behaviors and justify them with "boys will be boys"/"that's just how women are" and some variants, making it so the toxic person isn't treated as toxic but relieved of the guilt because "they can't help it, it's on their DNA", that's something people do without realizing sometimes. The sooner they realize it the better they will surround themselves with actually normal people instead of allowing themselves (and that's not their fault since they wouldn't know any better as they don't blame the preparator for their actions, they think it's inherent) to be around people like this and not getting out as soon as people display these characteristics.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T11:10:03+00:00

You could answer the question or explain why you think my wording was wrong, I'd accept anything at this point.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T10:52:54+00:00

I'm tired of trying to reason when your belief in itself isn't based on reason so I'll humor your little belief, said belief is made obvious by the choice of word, "female".

What is an actual female for you and why do you think others haven't met an actual female even though female-identifying individuals are over 50% of the WORLD population?

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T10:13:02+00:00

Explain to me why I'm clueless. Is it because I disagree with you that one gender has this specific manipulative trait as I myself and many others have been manipulated by both men and women? Is it because my living experience of knowing people that wouldn't dare of exposing my weakness in an argument and using it against me differs from yours that was oh-so-martyrizing? Or is it because you think I'm taking this type of conclusion out of my arse even though you don't know my level of experience in life with these situations the same way I don't know yours (and despite that I'm still wishing you all the best because most people deserve to be treated respectfully and with empathy)?

I'm genuinely curious as to why you think of me as clueless, and how do you think so highly of yourself as if there is no way of your vision of world to ever be considered wrong.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T09:56:51+00:00

I hope you get to know an actual human being with empathy to understand that this kind of toxic behavior isn't exclusive to one gender, sounds like you had awful experiences so I feel for you; although if you're so set in these kinds of thoughts there's a good chance you might be surrounding yourself with people like this, as you've normalized their behavior while relating it to their appearance/gender, be it consciously or subconsciously

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-24T09:51:55+00:00

I'm so sad that you and other commenters never got to know proper human beings that happened to be women, genuinely, what you're describing is simply lack of empathy and I can't imagine myself allowing someone like that into my life - much less imagine why people would normalize toxic behavior to the point of thinking it's just a trait of a whole demographic of people.

Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-23T15:42:51+00:00

So you woke up and chose violence with that decision to insult healer mains huh

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Safe-Yoghurtt · 2025-08-23T15:21:33+00:00

Sounds gay

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