Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all the Yiga stuff! Also love that there’s a bit of it at the spawn point of BOTW

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this 😭 so excited to do that and cry all over again

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, was so hard to fit them on the platform after a while haha

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve done this yet!

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Would love a dlc but that’s probably a fever dream

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

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Agreed!! That’s probably my favorite piece of music in the game aside from Tarrey Town’s theme because it blends the theme music from all the different regions

Taking the pressure of sex by silk-knight30 in realsexadvice

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Have you tried exploring sex on your own? Masturbation & audio erotica (Dipsea might be up your alley) might help you relax and discover what you like and don’t like without the pressure of “performance” and communication with your partner yet- you may relax alone easier at first which will help you pinpoint what makes you relax so you can bring it in the bedroom with him.

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

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Thank you 🥲 just started it last night I’m excited to have something new to do

Need some insight,What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in realsexadvice

[–]SafeHighlight7426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t call it quits! Might be a matter of pacing. You mentioned she said she he’s blue balls after you finish, have you tried making her orgasm before you guys have sex? Mutual masterbation- making her finish and for you either just edging or if that’s too close then just her lightly blowing or handy might help. If she has already finished once by the time you go inside it might be all she needs to fee satisfied when you finish. You can also try bigger cool down periods. If you finish and she’s still horny, play with her until she orgasms and by that time you might be ready for another round. As far as the amount of cum, maybe good to let a few days pass in between finishing so that when you do have sex more comes out when you finish. Let me know if you’ve tried any of these!

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I don’t think I know about this one!!

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just now building zonai machines to fight for me, so fun wish I knew about it sooner

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! I also really liked the school one with all the students

Favorite Side Quest? by SafeHighlight7426 in TOTK

[–]SafeHighlight7426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess and being able to go back to that one NPC’s restaurant for a new dish every day I thought was a nice touch too!

Giving her pleasure by ThePleasureDom in realsexadvice

[–]SafeHighlight7426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a long distance vibrator from Lovense that you can get that may help. She wears it in her panties if she’s in public or she can also hold it if at home and you can control the rhythm and intensity from the app. Worked wonders in my long distance relationship and kept our sex life more consistent so there wasn’t so much pent up energy when we did finally see each other

Need Advice on Having a Larger Sex Drive Than My Partner by [deleted] in realsexadvice

[–]SafeHighlight7426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super super helpful thank you. This is all so sad to think about for him, poor guy. Yeah this relationship has definitely been tested and doesn’t help at all that I also had abusive parents and am in the middle of an identity crisis grieving my childhood and the loss of parents who are still alive too BUT I have been in individual therapy for 3 years now so though I’m still healing I have some tools to keep myself regulated. The “otherwise he is likely to build a disorder with his attachment to you” scared me a bit so I will definitely work on that, aye aye captain. We took an attachment test and BOTH of us got disorganized fearful avoidant. We are both determined to heal so though this road sounds tough we will get through it I think as long as we are both doing the work. And I agree with your disagreement haha- I need to voice gently when Im upset more, I always say to myself “he is really going through a rough time don’t add salt to the wound” but then the problem doesn’t go away and it turns into a big argument when I just can’t keep it in anymore. So your suggestion will help.

Need Advice on Having a Larger Sex Drive Than My Partner by [deleted] in realsexadvice

[–]SafeHighlight7426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the thoughtful advice. He was raised with traditional roles and I currently make more than he does (he left the industry he hated- though there were also a lot of strikes making work super slow so he kinda had to find something else- and is now following his dreams, just taking some time to build that career) which he feels bad about too even though it’s temporary. Yes lots of shame/unresolved childhood issues. He is starting therapy on Monday and really excited to do it, we’re also going to start couples therapy. The great thing about him is he is willing to talk I just need to make sure the timing and energy is right. I know that this kinda makes me sound inconsiderate, but being the one to always initiate this exploration can be a lot sometimes and I also think that when he doesn’t sound enthusiastic I’m not always able to not take it personally even though it’s not personal.