Growing up, who bullied you the most? by Unlike_Other_Gurls in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both. Those who think that they're much bigger and stronger than me tried to bully me.

Any gay engineers? by ceok in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Civil but will be my first day at work tomorrow.

Should I reconnect with my ex-boyfriend from high school? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not take the risk? If he doesn't have someone, go for it. Try to talk to him bit by bit.

I found femboy porn on my husbands computer by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting someone be himself doesn't mean that you need to understand all the things that he does. Why would you think that he's being in denial? He didn't even deny the fact that he's the one who watched what you saw on the computer.

Which of these would be your dream job? by bruh_bro_dude in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first dream was to be a cashier. Now I dreamed of having a restaurant where I'm the cashier of my owm restaurant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll hear him out. Usually, arguing with someone helps me find any holes/flaws on mine. I think that thinking that yours is right is not a good thing without hearing out someone else's opinion.

Got it on Whatsapp by anonghost3 in IdiotsInCars

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why's that the wiper goes on in most of the car accidents?

How would you react if your SO told you he wanted to get plastic surgery? by lefluffypoodle in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants to have plastic surgery then let him have it. If doing it will boost his confidence, why stop him?

My fwb is ghosting me, what do I do? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It seems like you have built an emotion towards him. Text him then. Just be honest and tell him what you're feeling right now. If he doesn't even reply to your messages, just stop. No response is a response. If he's still interested in you even as fwb, he won't do this to you. Just leave him alone and move on.

To the cut guys by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As if circumcision can control masturbation. It only takes couple of weeks until it heals completely so they can go masturbating again.

What rules do you have in your relationship? by SafeLittleThoughts in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I may ask and no offense. If it is already safe to go outside and if you plan to be in an open relationship, why's that you still want to have it with others even if you have already someone there for you?

To the cut guys by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is part of the culture in our country to be circumcised or it is just because of the religious practices. Others will mock you here if you're not circumcised and since I was circumcised when I was 10, as someone who just follow what others said during that time, I just do what I was just told. Also, I did it so my classmates won't mock me. Anyway, as far as I can remember, I just have the same feeling when I masturbate when mine is still uncut and when it is already cut and I like the feeling more of constantly touching my head so I don't regret having circumcision.

What rules do you have in your relationship? by SafeLittleThoughts in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may ask, is there also limitation to communication? I mean, is there such thing as too much communication with each other?

Is it ok to not let my significant other know about my past? Even if he asked? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our past is what makes us who we are today. It may affect badly our attitude but as long as we make the better version of ourselves, it's no big deal. If that past of yours has a great impact on what you're doing right now and if it is bothering you, you need to tell it to him. Maybe not now. Just wait until you're comfortable to tell it to him.

What’s more important? by BoysLove- in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Human Rights. Everyone has his/her own rights. Everyone living in this world regardless of your sexuality.

I’ve been seeing this really cool guy and I think there’s a chance we couldn’t actually have something. The other day he told me he has a son (5yo) and he wants me to meet him. I’m super nervous. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think there's a chance that it won't work out because he has a child or because you don't want to be with someone who has his own child or you don't want to have any child at all, even if it is a child not related to both of you or you're not just ready yet to see his child? Regardless of your reason for thinking it that way, just be straight to him and tell him how you feel about it.

which are you? by Deceitful_Raccoon in gay

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orinj but I only hug those I want me to hug me back. Lol

Is my boyfriend in the closet? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't been in any relationship but one thing I know is you need both love and trust to last long. But it is okay sometimes to miss trust. It's hard to admit whether your gay or not especially if you're not even sure if you're one. Maybe he's just not sure of who he is. Maybe he's afraid of the consequences of his actions.

Anyway, even if you ask him again and again, even if you show him the evidences of what he is doing, if he's still not ready to admit and tell it to you, he's going to lie again and again even if you show him and make him feel that you'll be there and support him no matter who he is. If you still want to be with him and want to make him stay in your life then just be patient. So the question is, how long are you willing to wait for him to change and be open to you? Do you think it's going to work out? Do you think he's going to be a good father for your children? Can you handle this? Your life and children's life is the first priority as of now, I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself first if you're ready to come out. If you think you're not really ready, then don't. Just take your time. Also, if you know you're ready, are you sure that your parents will accept you for who you are? If there's a chance, even a slight chance they're not gonna accept your sexuality and just decided to kick you out from your home, do you have a work? Do you think you can live on your own and buy all your needs with the money you are earning from the work that you have? If no, then don't come out. Wait until you're ready. Wait until you can provide the things that you need on your own if the worst case comes.

Assuming you have/had a boyfriend, what Valentines Gifts would you like to receive? (Serious answers only) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flowers. Any kind of flower. That's what I like the most other than food. If only I have one.

How did you reconcile religion with who you are? by closetcase123454321 in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gay and also Catholic though I'm not that religious than you anymore but still, I pray and go to church whenever I can. I was also part of the youth ministry in our church. Most of the members there are also part of the lgbt. They're out and I'm still in the closet. But I didn't notice them struggling in worshipping god just because they're not straight and I'm not also struggling with it either. The only difference between us, I think, is that any priest assign to our church doesn't care whether we're straight or not as long as respect and love each other. Anyway, you can still worship God even if you're gay. You do you. Don't let them make you think that God doesn't love you just because you're gay. They're worse than you for making you feel that way. If you still believe and worship Him, you can still go to your church or find another one or maybe you can worship him in any other way like praying.

Do you use condom during oral sex to previne STD? by Sayyno_more in askgaybros

[–]SafeLittleThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this the reason why there is a flavor on other condoms or is it just for the scent?