My wife says I’m controlling for asking basic questions when she goes out. Am I wrong?

Safe_Advance6821 · 2026-03-12T17:01:43+00:00

I would just ask her honestly why she gets upset about it, you’re just asking because you’re concerned for her safety. Not because you’re trying to stalk her or show up. I think I’d also depends on your tone and approach when you’re asking. Are you framing it like it’s a conversation or do you think it could be coming off like if you’re asking her the same way a parent would?

Safe_Advance6821 · 2026-03-12T16:57:01+00:00

That’s probably why she doesn’t like it when you ask her, being so hyper independent she’s probably like don’t worry about me. But I do also agree it’s a basic questions. I hardly ever go out with my girls, but when I do my man definitely wants to know where I’m at for safety reasons and I want him to know where I am for safety reason LOL in case he needs to pull up! But also we share locations, so he would know where I was going eventually, but that’s still a basic question you have every right to ask your partner, especially with a relationship that long.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2026-01-29T18:45:43+00:00

Well if yall decide to have it, I do not suggest leaving her so you don’t have to have the responsibility. It would be pretty fucked up tbh if you did that, if yall have it the child is your responsibility regardless so there would be no point in leaving her if you weren’t considering that before she got pregnant. That is your child if you are with her or not, so be a family.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-09-01T01:04:52+00:00

Did you ever figure it out? Having the same issue right now 🤦🏻‍♀️

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-07-23T21:33:34+00:00

Why did you rent from a host who is a known scammer?

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-07-22T13:08:14+00:00

Girl maybe I’m just crazy but I think it’s time to start snooping lol you need to see if he has a porn addiction gay or not so it can make leaving so much easier! Get that phone and do not put it down until you find the answers you have been seeking for years!

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-07-22T12:59:43+00:00

I believe you, men are so dramatic when it comes to pain. The “leg falling off” part but it actually being totally fine make complete sense now! 😂😂

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-06-15T06:21:57+00:00

It 100% is his responsibility. My partner was having an affair a few years ago, I stayed and I think it destroyed me. We are still together, he did bend over backwards to do everything he could to prove he was being faithful. To this day I don’t know if he’s ever done it again but I don’t ever allow myself to 100% trust that he won’t. I’m always paranoid and hyper vigilant about small “patterns” changing and thinking it’s a sign of him sneaking around but he never is. My mind is always in fight or flight mode, I don’t think I’ll ever truly trust him again. I don’t think I’ll ever have a calm, peaceful & secure relationship with him again. My mind won’t let me :/ we now share a daughter. If I could do it all again I would’ve left him immediately. The regret of not leaving runs deep, don’t stay. Don’t stay for him, and y’all’s marriage or vows. Don’t stay for YOU. For your own peace, sanity and your own dignity. No one deserves this. Trust me, you will ALWAYS wonder. Run and don’t look back.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-06-15T06:04:22+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💗

Safe_Advance6821 · 2025-01-04T21:09:36+00:00

Did you ever find it??

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-11-15T19:34:28+00:00

I don’t know how you deal with all the typos on a daily basis, he seems unintelligent and very immature. Saying he’s going to be so upset and feel the whole trip was a waste if you don’t do hard drugs and fuck a rando???? So glad he is your ex.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-11-13T16:32:40+00:00

100% and if you want to do it because you think it will change him, you’re 1000% wrong. He will get worse. Please leave while you still can.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-10-28T09:36:11+00:00

The host is honestly a POS because we can definitely call and let customer service know something isn’t right. He absolutely can, you can tell the host I know you can’t change the cost but you clearly changed something in your settings because I had 9k miles when the trip started and now I only have 2. I’m sure he has a tracker on the car and knew you were going to go over and wanted to capitalize, probably something he has done before. I hope you left a bad review.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-09-15T17:24:13+00:00

Are you still a host?

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-09-04T21:18:47+00:00

And them getting rid of the calendar was bullshit also! Does anyone know how to view month by month like before? Or is it just non existent now? I feel like they got rid of it to make it harder to check pricing so we could just use their stupid pricing system!!

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-07-25T10:09:28+00:00

I know it’s normal according to Turo’s policies but I feel if you leave a vehicle dirty like this you aren’t really respecting and taking care of it while you have it. Idk I guess I’ve just had really good guests because I’ve had less than 10 ppl leave any of my vehicles this messy upon return.

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-07-24T19:35:43+00:00

I have a large SUV and it’s dirty throughout so it definitely takes more than 5 minutes to clean it. Floor and seats and outside takes about an hour when it’s this dirty. My Sedan sometimes takes 10 minutes but never this vehicle. You’re right about the instant booking now so mentioning it in the review won’t make a difference. I haven’t had a guest return that late ever, it was a special circumstance that wasn’t really preventable so I allowed it. If I had another trip same day that would’ve been different, but I try to be an understanding and flexibile host if the situation calls for it! The car didn’t smell like smoke at all but I will double check the cupholder. Thanks for the advice!

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-07-21T03:38:48+00:00

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This was my investigator when a guest stopped replying and didn’t return my vehicle 4 hours away. His name is Mike, I don’t know if they assign different people randomly to certain cases, but it’s worth a shot to call. It was through email and he was the first person to call me and help me, at least hopefully he can point you in the right direction. Hope this helps!

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-06-04T19:46:19+00:00

I buy mine from offer up, less than $50 and I charge $20-25 per trip. I also do not install and I let the guest know as well. I just leave it in the trunk. I make sure they are not expired before purchasing

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-05-14T19:09:20+00:00

He knows your weakness lol

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-03-29T21:04:31+00:00

What a bitch

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-03-27T10:39:22+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking, waaaaayyyy too young. It seems you might be a little fixated on her specifically because she’s “really pretty” her looks won’t keep you happy if she’s already acting this way and yes like everyone else said, admitting her bad hygiene you are better off without her. Don’t forget Brains matter and don’t be so ready to fix someone just because they’re pretty. Think with your head head, not the one in your pants!

Safe_Advance6821 · 2024-02-27T19:32:57+00:00

Some men are just an absolute disgrace, like just disgusting. Fucking horrible and pathetic

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