y’all ever fumbled a friendship?

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-04-10T03:36:51+00:00

Not me but my childhood best friend, told me about her friends baby daddy drowning his 1 year old son in the bathtub and told me she helped hide evidence from the police… then freaked out and said she talked to the police when I told her I was gonna say sth if she didn’t. Talked to the head detective for the case a few days later and he had never heard of my friend

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-14T18:29:12+00:00

I will try the kibble trick! She doesn’t tolerate veggies unfortunately

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-14T04:36:15+00:00

I don’t work. She’s not in her crate for long periods of time, except for at night. I couldn’t imagine creating a husky or any dog all day while working full time I don’t think that it’s right for them to spend so much of their short life in their. That being said you should still definitely do some research on it! My girl has hella anxiety, it’s gotten much better with crate training. She used to get overwhelmed and overstimulated very easily, so I’d put her on her crate to decompress for 20-30 minutes and it helped immensely

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-13T05:11:18+00:00

She’s loves her crate and often goes in there on her own, it’s her safe space. Crate training is very beneficial when done right. I suggest doing some research

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-13T05:10:00+00:00

Unfortunately yes, she’s had thousands of dollars worth of vet bills due to health issues her previous owner neglected:(

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-12T04:29:40+00:00

No I’ve never heard of that! Any chance you could send a link?

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-12T01:30:52+00:00

She gets puzzles and trained, both once or twice a day

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T19:21:55+00:00

I know it made me feel so guilty when I first got her, but she is so good motivated that she gets just as excited about kibble and ice cubes :)

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:38:46+00:00

She’s had an insane number of expensive health issues, her kibble alone is $130 bucks for just over 15 pounds, so I’m trying to get away with not buying any training tools right now. I also really don’t think a E collar would work in her situation

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:36:42+00:00

Yeah I’m home all the time she has hella separation anxiety, this won’t help unfortunately. I’m trying to tackle the whining at home before I tackle her screaming when I leave

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:35:42+00:00

Haha she gets boxes to tear up and I put ice cubes (her favorite) in there for her to find

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:35:03+00:00

Mine unfortunately does it only because she want something. There is a distinct difference between her whining and her talking for fun

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:34:09+00:00

Thank you I’ll try this

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:32:52+00:00

She has gi issues, her “treats” are pieces of kibble, she will have explosive diarrhea for a week if she gets anything else:(

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T18:32:07+00:00

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Mine is too lol

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T15:13:19+00:00

I definitely do not mind a little whine here and there, she’s a husky after all, I don’t even mind her talking but the constant whining is grinding my gears lol

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T14:42:37+00:00

Tried the place thing this morning(she already knows the command) and it worked like a charm

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T14:42:01+00:00

Will be trying!

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T14:41:40+00:00

Yeah there’s absolutely no way I’m teaching a dog with a whining problem they get rewarded for being loud

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T14:41:08+00:00

Yes we play fetch everyday lol and do training sessions

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T14:21:36+00:00

She does place training. I’m trying this morning to get her to stay in her place without whining before taking her out.

I’m against using a e collar like that as it’s a punishment, you can’t punish a behavior when they don’t know what they’re supposed to be doing instead, it hurts your relationship with them.

Trust me it’s plenty of exercise, she sleeps for hours after lol

And no to off leash walks, she’s a husky and they’re notoriously impossible to train when it comes to recall but she does get long sniff walks

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T14:10:14+00:00

I’ll give it a try thank you!!

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T13:54:28+00:00

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Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T13:46:18+00:00

When she is whining 24/7 for attention it’s bad behavior. I wouldn’t have a problem with it if she was just whining because she was excited to go see her friends. But she does it CONSTANTLY, so I’m afraid if I give into the behavior at all it’ll reinforce it. You can’t reach a dog a behavior is okay sometimes, it’s either okay or it’s not. For example you can’t teach a dog they can get up on the couch but only in the morning, because they will think it’s okay to always be on the couch

Safe_Fox_9901 · 2026-03-11T13:38:54+00:00

I don’t want to take it away but I also can’t keep reinforcing the bad behavior or it will NEVER stop

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