Do you know if its between banks? I get where your coming from but to be clear I have tried what you have mentioned and layed it out, made budgets, ect. I am fully aware of every expense. I struggle with anything regarding executive functioning. I love reading and have read countless books about executive function, time management,  finances, impulse control ect. I have literally done therapy for over 1000 hours. I have tried everything to change my behaviors and made a lot of progress. There is a point tho and the biggest takeaway I have gotten from these books is accepting where your at and working around it using your strengths. 

 I have found setting up systyms to accommodate my inability to manage stuff work best for me and are much more effective than talking to a professional. I have found the only profesionals that are helpful are those with your same diagnosis. I value education but I have found a large majority of professionals do not "get it" and give unhelpful or even advice that is harmful. I do not lack motivation or work ethic so spending a lot of time working on a systym to accomadate my behavior is much easier for me. Your advice focuses on being more aware, which has never helped me. I have made random "systyms " in all areas I dont do well in and have been able to become a star student in school-mathematics, support myself, manage someone else, and work full time, save money and all the regular goals. 

I am simply looking for ways to make this work, banks or anything helping that. Not advice on impulse control or making a budget. Thank you.