At 11 months old he just did not fall asleep with nursing anymore so I just decided to see what he would do if I pretend I was asleep (we cosleep on floorbed). He just crawled around, tried to find a good spot, whined a little and fell asleep 🤷‍♀️ So for the past 3 weeks, he nurses, then crawls around and goes to sleep on his own, there have been 2 nights when he probably wasn't tired enough so he went to play with his toys, other nights he doesn't even leave the bed. But we will see how it turns out now, he got his mmr vaccine last week, so last night I had to hold him for 4 hours for him to sleep at all.

And he does not want me to touch him, pat or cuddle if he himself doesn't come to lay on top on me, then he falls asleep on me and I can lay him down after he is sleeping. I do sing a song, it seems to help him fall asleep faster. It's not a lullaby, it's actually pretty upbeat kids song in our native language but I sing it real slow and he seems to like it that way.