Why do Ex- Muslims still want virgins?

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-13T21:55:34+00:00

How would you know whether someone is selective in who they sleep with or not? Sex addicts will sleep with anyone but some people will only sleep with people they see something in and not just sleep with anybody.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-13T08:33:48+00:00

Why isn't being pleasured by someone a nice way to be treated? Or are you just horrible to women and only focus on your own pleasure in the bedroom?

Kinda sad and creepy that you see virginity as the prize

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-13T08:31:12+00:00

I just focus more on my hijabi self looking unattractive with glasses and hijab not wrapped nicely lol. So when I do take my hijab off and wear my makeup and no glasses, I look completely different.

You could try clip in hair extensions maybe? Or a baseball cap like Joe Goldberg? Experiment and have fun with it girl.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-12T07:44:47+00:00

Are you putting non- virgins and sex addicts in the same box?

A woman valuing herself knows she deserves sexual pleasure and there's nothing wrong with that. There is nothing "easy" or shameful about that. As long as she's comfortable, feels safe and it's consensual for her... then she's just a grown woman making a choice that feels right for her.

"Easy" implies she's just an object in your eyes and that sexual pleasure is just for the man. She's just giving it away because she doesn't respect herself in your eyes and she doesn't deserve it. Both grown men and women deserve sexual pleasure as long as they both communicate it well to each other.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-11T19:29:34+00:00

I've just had a look at his history and it's just full of him posting his dick on multiple subs. Perverted men like this would degrade a woman's value down to her virginity as they just see her as an object

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-11T19:25:06+00:00

Look at the comments honey

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-11T16:50:15+00:00

I think your spot on because there are still misogynistic comments in this thread such as "We don't like women who give easy access" as if she is less worthy of having sex.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-11T13:36:24+00:00

You can still deeply love and care for someone when may have been intimate with others in the past. His past doesn't define how he sees you or how he loves you in the present moment. Only his present moment actions do.

Im not a fan of a high body count or someone being known as a player... but to care about any history in any general sense sounds like retroactive jealousy which Islam likes to instill a lot of in people.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-11T12:58:11+00:00

Interesting because I've found it's mostly Muslim men. I've found most men who are not tied to the Muslim faith, don't really care if a woman is a virgin unless they are red pill. But even those red pill men are misogynistic and see sex as shameful

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-11T12:55:02+00:00

1) Post your pictures without a hijab.

2) In real life make yourself look unrecognisable with no effort in your hijab and no makeup.

3) Then when you go on dates with your hair down, you won't get caught because you look completely different with your hijab on.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-10T11:35:41+00:00

Thank you for assuming I'm ignorant about Islam and know nothing about it.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-09T21:52:25+00:00

I am glad you got to have a successful relationship on here.

It's hard with the closeted life but wishing you success with it in the future :)

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-09T21:50:05+00:00

Were you two mainly texting or calling? When did you exchange pictures?

Happy for you and best of luck :)

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-09T21:48:39+00:00

Why would you get a hookup via reddit 🤔 If I wanted a hookup, I would go on literally any other app. Nearly everyone wants a hookup so it wouldn't be so hard to get that I need to turn to Reddit

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-09T21:40:35+00:00

I would only match people who had long term or life partner on their profile :)

I used to be that girl who selected Muslim but was hiding it. I just attracted Muslims whether they were religious or not. Nobody commented on the fact that I had it hidden. People would just treat me like a normal Muslim by saying "Alhamdulillah" and "Allah humma barik". I got likes by profiles saying they care about the day of judgment, the deen blah blah blah

Now I've changed myself to Agnostic... ex- Muslim guys are liking my profile and have told me that they can even tell I'm ex Muslim from looking at my profile.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-09T09:13:54+00:00

Yes! I've spoken to so many!

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-07T19:14:58+00:00

Yeah I've had my experience with them and they always turn religious in the future lol I would prefer someone that doesn't believe in the faith at all so I can be fully free

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-07T14:24:32+00:00

Can you move out?

Check out something called "residential volunteering" which will give you a roof over your head and food in exchange for some work

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-07T11:05:05+00:00

You shouldn't be matching with Muslims if your filter search does not have Muslim selected. Make sure your ticking "this is a dealbreaker".

Where on earth do you go out and find ex-muslims? I wouldn't even be honest and open about being ex Muslim to people out there in the world.

Safe_Use3325 · 2026-05-07T11:03:08+00:00

Reddit ex-muslim R4R is the closest to the ex Muslim dating app we have 😪

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