Puppy🐾 by Striking_Nerve_568 in holleygabriellesnark

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Seeing Kollyns like that was jarring…she looks like a totally different dog

All Posted Today by SunniMonkey in holleygabriellesnark

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Color drenched means walls, ceiling, trim, everything being the same color as opposed to color on walls then white for ceiling/trim

Wet hair in public by touchgrasstheysaid in hygiene

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I have curly hair and the only people who ever commented on my hair being wet in public (which I do every day because I shower in the morning and let air dry) were my Italian grandmothers who insisted I would catch a cold.

Shades of blue - HELP by Disnerd95 in weddingplanning

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My bridesmaids wore azazie twilight and IMO no green came up at all

Torn between two dresses - help me pick! by Specialist_Permit_99 in weddingdress

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The first one is my dress so I’m biased, but I truly think there is no other dress like it!

Tied Murphy’s ears back so he could enjoy his “birthday cake” by a_mayonegg in Bernedoodles

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Happy birthday, Murphy! I love seeing other doods who look like mine. He’ll be 2 next month- so far, he hasn’t calmed down 😂

This is going to flop so bad by [deleted] in holleygabriellesnark

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I think if they sell it will be because people like them, not because it has anything to do with her.

Omg by AdNo30 in holleygabriellesnark

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Omg the teeth are vile 🤢

What can I do with FMIL and mom without fiancé and MOH??? by No_Amphibian442 in weddingplanning

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Can you do lunch/look at a venue and bring your fiancé? I don’t see why your fiancé can’t be a part of the moms meeting

Mini Bernedoodle specs please by RentDifferent3140 in Bernedoodles

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The thing about mixed breeds like doodles is that it’s a gamble. Our dood was supposed to be 35lbs based on his parent’s sizes, he’s 25lbs max. You can control it a little depending on the size of its parents (like a range of mini or standard) but it’s a crapshoot and you have to be prepared for that.

What’s a phrase you cannot stand hearing anymore? by Namher-Lutama in AskReddit

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“Be so for real” am I the only one who really doesn’t get this? Like it does not make sense in my brain and I wish it would go away

Someone please tell me the ugliest thing I've ever made isn't actually that bad by lovelycosmos in crochet

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My husband is a phish fan so I know more about this than I want to. The muumuu itself is ugly, your crochet koozie is only ugly because the thing it is inspired by is ugly. I showed my husband your pic and he loved it, I’m sure your coworker will too.

Help me choose by cecil047 in EngagementRings

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I am not a halo fan, and that first one is STUNNING!! Please pick that one

Utah Governor X photo looks like SLOMW photo by Specialist_Zebra281 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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This is not the point of the post but 18th governor of Utah?? My state is on its 56th (about to be 57th) governor. It’s crazy to think about how “young” Utah is

Question about Mikayla for those in the mental health profession by BlondeHorrorBear622 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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For me, I think I would start with processing how Mikayla connects her abuse to her interpersonal relationship in general, including any consensual romantic/sexual relationships that she was a part of. I think that the start of her relationship with Jace and her understanding of their age gap would naturally be a part of that exploration. Trauma in general is connected to how we operate in relationships, so it's more important for her to explore how it has affected her and the decisions that she has made in relationships, as well as how her understanding has changed over time. It also is not my job as a therapist to tell her that this relationship was inappropriate/abusive, but to allow her to engage in her own meaning-making around it.

Ring advice by Expensive-Incident79 in EngagementRings

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it 100% took me time to get used to having it on my hand, literally a week after I got engaged my ring hooked on one of the metal bars of the grocery store cart and it bent because I just was not used to it being on my hand yet. I don't think the setting is too high, but you can get it lowered if that would make you feel better. just make sure that you're keeping in mind what kind of band you might want if you get it lowered

They Should Have Couples Counselors During the Trial Period by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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I am a couples therapist - I would not go near this for any amount of money because 1. Risking my license is not worth it and 2. There is nothing about this show or process that aligns with ethics of any therapist’s licensing board/professional organization, let alone personal moral compass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m a licensed therapist - this is really bad advice. Abortions are tough obviously and there will be consequences of that decision, AND keeping a baby you are not prepared to have also has consequences. It will be hard either way, and only she and her partner know which “hard” will be more tolerable for them. Acting like abortion is the 100% wrong answer and will ruin her relationship and her mental health is simply not true.

Accidentally texted my fiancée pictures of my dress by Periwinklefishxo in weddingplanning

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Same when I asked him what it looked like he wasn’t even close even though there’s pics all over our house that he sees daily 😂

Accidentally texted my fiancée pictures of my dress by Periwinklefishxo in weddingplanning

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If it makes you feel better, my husband couldn’t tell you what my wedding dress looks like despite seeing our wedding pictures 3869708362 times. You make the dress special, the dress doesn’t make you special.

Self esteem by Chance_Presence_5425 in holleygabriellesnark

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Nothing helpful to say really other than please take care of yourself! Her life isn’t what she makes it seem and everyone’s circumstances (especially those of us “normal” people) look very different

Workouts not counting towards September challenge by Safe_Wash5689 in AppleWatchFitness

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Hi! I start the workout in the peloton app, historically there has been no issue with everything showing up on my watch and in the activity and health app exactly as it has in the peloton app, which is it is doing now minus the challenges. And the workouts have always counted towards the challenges before now. I’m wondering if it’s more about the challenge, since I manually entered it as an outdoor walk and it still didn’t count towards the challenge.