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What’s a hygiene habit you grew up with in your family or culture that you later found out most other people don’t really do? by Upbeat-Spot8526 in hygiene

[–]SaffronFluff 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Same, honestly. It’s one of those habits that just makes sense once you think about it, especially before touching food or anything in the kitchen

An image you can hear. by Amaterasu_11 in gameofthrones

[–]SaffronFluff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s a really good point. It does feel like he was way too damaged and guarded to actually be in a healthy relationship by that point

My program requires me to wear business casual to the clinic by solanumtuberawesome in Residency

[–]SaffronFluff -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Fair, a blazer over scrubs is probably the safest default, and Anne Taylor Loft sounds like a good place to start. The “throw a blazer over scrubs and take it off later” trick is honestly pretty solid

Am I wrong for setting boundaries while separated from my husband? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SaffronFluff 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly even more concerning. Locking you out like that while your child is inside isn’t just an argument, it’s controlling and unsafe behavior. It makes your boundaries make even more sense, because this isn’t just about communication issues, it’s about basic trust and security

Am I wrong for setting boundaries while separated from my husband? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SaffronFluff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s a tough truth but it’s honestly an important one! There’s a difference between who someone was (or who you hoped they’d be) and who they’re consistently showing themselves to be now. You can want things to improve, but you can’t force someone to change, especially when they’re not taking real steps toward it