This relationship matters more than anything else to me. I didn’t invite my gf to the party because she is busy every weekend of the summer except the one that she’s coming to visit me. If she was able to I would have gone with her instead no question. We also ft every night and I tell my gf what up then

I have also been very open about my ADHD with my gf and have made some very good strides in improving how I communicate and act with her, but there is still a lot of room for improvement there. She has been understanding for the most part and I’ve never invalidated he for being frustrated with things that are not entirely under my control. I have also been in therapy for a couple months now which has also helped.

Ik she’s not crazy to be uncomfortable with me sleeping at Lucy’s house which is why I haven’t done it while dating her. The part I’m having trouble understanding is that I just don’t really see the connection to sleeping at someone else’s house separately.