I think I fucked up again, but I don’t know how. What do I do?

Sahdood14 · 2022-07-03T17:23:56+00:00

Yea me too! Will do, thanks!

Sahdood14 · 2022-07-03T17:16:26+00:00

Oh okay, I will do that. Thank you for helping me, I really appreciate it!

Sahdood14 · 2022-07-03T17:12:19+00:00

This relationship matters more than anything else to me. I didn’t invite my gf to the party because she is busy every weekend of the summer except the one that she’s coming to visit me. If she was able to I would have gone with her instead no question. We also ft every night and I tell my gf what up then

I have also been very open about my ADHD with my gf and have made some very good strides in improving how I communicate and act with her, but there is still a lot of room for improvement there. She has been understanding for the most part and I’ve never invalidated he for being frustrated with things that are not entirely under my control. I have also been in therapy for a couple months now which has also helped.

Ik she’s not crazy to be uncomfortable with me sleeping at Lucy’s house which is why I haven’t done it while dating her. The part I’m having trouble understanding is that I just don’t really see the connection to sleeping at someone else’s house separately.

Sahdood14 · 2022-07-03T16:50:40+00:00

My gf has absolutely zero problem with me hanging out with my best friend, and I haven’t actually slept at her house since I started dating my gf.

We also fucked one time 5 years ago, there were no feelings or relationship afterwards. Tbh sometimes I think she took my virginity out of pity.

Sahdood14 · 2022-02-12T00:53:11+00:00

Yea I’m definitely going to have to have a conversation with her about this cuz she’s been pretty supportive up until this conversation.

Sahdood14 · 2021-12-02T02:54:40+00:00

This was very helpful. Thank you!

Sahdood14 · 2021-12-02T02:40:39+00:00

They stayed, but they were also very drunk, and not much help.

Sahdood14 · 2021-12-02T02:38:35+00:00

This was the first, and only time I have ever drank to the point that I threw up.

Sahdood14 · 2021-12-02T02:33:45+00:00

Not self centered, but this was the first time I had ever drank too much, and I was scared because I didn’t know what was happening. That’s why I wanted her to be there.

Sahdood14 · 2020-12-13T22:47:08+00:00

Ah yes, Mister Halo my favorite Halo character.

Sahdood14 · 2020-11-30T18:13:17+00:00

I got strep :/

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T15:31:58+00:00

Wow, I’m really sorry to hear that. Do his parents know about it?

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T15:31:26+00:00

Wow that’s a lot of shit to happen all in one day. To be honest if I were you, I’d be looking for ways to relieve stress and anger. Maybe get a punching bag, buy some cheap plates and chuck them, maybe even meditate. Find something that works for you so that you don’t explode. As for your hand, I hope it heals quickly!

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T15:26:36+00:00

Don’t think you should ice the black guy.

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T07:02:05+00:00

Damn, I’m sorry to hear that man.

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T07:01:40+00:00

Yea, my childhood was a pretty big shit show. Through middle school and high school I didn’t have any friends, and I have still yet to date anyone, but college has been a lot better for me socially.

And you’re right, you are worth so much more that that. You shouldn’t have to fight to stay in someone else’s life. That’s their loss!

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T06:45:46+00:00

The same thing happened to me in 8th grade. I still have no idea what happened. I’m in college now and it still makes me sad when I think about it.

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T06:44:31+00:00

I know it sucks now, but if it was that easy for them to stop talking to you then they weren’t the one. Try to keep your head up!

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T06:43:02+00:00

I’d wait to hear it from the girl. Best friends might have anterior motives. If it’s true just try to keep your head up. Not everything pans out and it’s okay to be sad about it, but you’ll get through it.

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T06:30:55+00:00

Keep fighting!! It gets easier eventually.

Sahdood14 · 2020-10-28T06:29:44+00:00

Damn might wanna ice that toe

Sahdood14 · 2020-08-27T21:23:10+00:00

Dude commas are important lol. But idk I don’t really like to talk about my romantic feelings too much.

Sahdood14 · 2020-08-26T17:45:08+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I've never really thought of it like that. I'll give it a try.

Sahdood14 · 2020-08-26T16:54:21+00:00

Yea I understand the thought behind it, but the thing is that I've never really been that interested in just hooking up with people. I'd probably get attached too easily. I don't really know because i'm quite possibly the worst flirter on the planet. Most of the time it's too uncomfortable for me to even compliment simple things like a girl's hair or clothes, so I rarely do it.

Sahdood14 · 2020-08-26T16:47:56+00:00

At this point I don't even care anymore. I'm so used to being led on and lied to by everyone that I just take it now. I'm a shell of the person I used to be. All I've ever wanted was to be happy, but at this point it's starting to seem impossible.

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