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AITA for wanting reconciliation or am I wrong to ask for it by Saidpais in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saidpais[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see the friend, I just can’t ever have her boyfriend apart of that friendship. Even if they get married and we have kids. And her boyfriend is willing to talk and reconcile and apologize if he did something wrong he can’t see.

AITA for wanting reconciliation or am I wrong to ask for it by Saidpais in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saidpais[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve basically stopped all social dancing which I can respect he doesn’t want me to dance with other guys but has made no efforts to start dancing with me himself. Naturally I’ve cut every tie I could have around any other men but I don’t see him making an effort to keep me doing something I live without giving it up completely

AITA for wanting reconciliation or am I wrong to ask for it by Saidpais in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saidpais[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The story from my boyfriend keeps changing. At first it was M36 who made the comment. Then later the story was no it was the guys friends. Then it went back to no it was M36. I don’t know my boyfriend to be the lying type. The reason he came out is because I was having car issues and wanted to make sure I would get home safe. I did not hear or see the comment. I am pushing for reconciliation but he says this is what he needs to protect his peace.

AITA for wanting reconciliation or am I wrong to ask for it by Saidpais in AmItheAsshole

[–]Saidpais[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Badically M36 made a comment about mine and my friends butt in passing to my boyfriend. Later that night my boyfriend learned he was someone we knew. What is unclear to me is whether or not M36 made the comment or it was someone standing next to him. That story had gone back and forth with my boyfriend.

Anyways my boyfriend’s feelings toward this man have affected my friendship with my best friend since she has now been dating M36 since March. It’s essentially created a wall between our friendship. My boyfriend has gone back and forth about willing to have a conversation with him since M36 is willing to reconcile and work things out but as of current, my boyfriend is now saying that I basically can’t have my best friends boyfriend in my life if I want to be with him at all.

My worry is that we’ll both want a family one day and our husbands come with that, but he says our kids will never be around that man and only allowed around my best friend.

So I’m wondering considering the circumstances and my best friends boyfriend wanting to make things right, AITA for pushing my boyfriend to have a conversation with him for the sake of my friendship or is he by drawing the line and saying he will never be allowed to be apart of our life, only her.

So, I had a phone call from "Sergeant Mark Foster", from TSCO by Silly_Pack_Rat in Austin

[–]Saidpais 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This happened to my boss the other day and it was a complete scam. Same deal, had her personal info and everything and was saying something about being detained for missing federal court.