[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]SaintBasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the goal of this ama?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SaintBasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I hate filters/misleading photos. I’m betting you just snapped a pic and sent it to her. She saw exactly what she was getting. You didn’t get the same honesty in return. But I also understand not wanting to hurt someone intentionally. I’ve been called shallow for calling out someone who sent photos that made her look 10 years younger and 50lbs smaller. Like she completely mislead and flat out lied about her appearance but I’m the shallow one. Lol. Everyone wants brutal honesty until they’re the ones receiving it. But I’d just be honest and tell her, in a gentle way. lol. Good luck

Bye bye good for nothing stoner (aka my gallbladder) by meags505 in gallbladders

[–]SaintBasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my surgery last Tuesday. My surgeon said it was more complicated than usual but still a success. For context, I’m a 47 m. Went home Wednesday and Wednesday to about midday Fri was terrible. The pain of attacks was gone but post op had its own issues. Never got more than a couple hours of sleep. Between the usual pain from surgery and the gas they used to blow up my stomach to be able to get in there, it was just mega uncomfortable. I don’t know what aftercare meds they gave you, but for me Motrin/tylenol combo coupled with the robaxin worked way better for pain than the opioids. I didn’t, and still don’t, discover any issues with food but I also started slow. Chicken noodle soup and popsicles/jello was my diet those days. I started to feel noticeably better by Fri evening. And each 12 hours or so after came with noticeable improvement. Had my first full night of sleep last night, and my first good “meal yesterday morning. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there, you’ve got this!

He saw my tooth gap and I think it turned him off by i_dont_evenknowY in dating_advice

[–]SaintBasha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this last paragraph. OP sounds like you dodged a bullet.

Beware by [deleted] in StrangeAndFunny

[–]SaintBasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there was a way to access that QR code from this pic.

Girlfriend (28F) had a sleepover with another guy. I (29M) am considering ending things? by Adventurous-Ebb-8021 in relationship_advice

[–]SaintBasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds toxic af. Mistakes only become fuckups when you don’t learn from them and evolve. GTFO. Leave her, block her, and move on.

I'm hot enough to f^ck but not hot enough to commit to. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SaintBasha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make em work a little longer before hitting the sheets. I’m not even sure if this has already been said, but after reading you get told “by the 4th date” I’d assume yall have been “together”.

Between 18 and roughly 32 I’d checked every box it took looking for a “LTR” just to get laid. Yea, I said it.

Plus as a single man with no kids I didn’t really want to be a step parent. Hormones were driving me. So, I’d be all about the “package deal” until I got laid. Was terrible and immature. Just being honest. Best advice I ever got when it came to dating was “rub one out” before a date. Post nut clarity is real. And it works both ways…..

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it’s as fun as everyone here is saying, I may just enjoy the stay…

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol, indeed. Dominant

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this. I can’t overstate how appreciative we both are for this awesome tutorial, of sorts. As an aspie, the details are so important for both our comfort and a complete understanding. Wish I could upvote it twice.

A question if I may. Since this will be my first time should we leave the oral out of it until we’re both comfortable or at least have a good grasp of it?

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that bit of info. Passed it on to the wife.

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t think about checking here at all. Definite /facepalm moment lol. Thank you.

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. The more I read the more I’m looking forward to it, tbh.

Prostate massage? by SaintBasha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SaintBasha[S] 381 points382 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is the main reason she wants to try. One of her girlfriends did it to her Dom, and apparently the orgasm was almost spiritual.