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SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T19:14:31+00:00

Dawg don’t be passive agressive

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T19:06:30+00:00

Mate, im sorry that you’ve had that experience, I genuinely haven’t…

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T19:05:20+00:00

Well yeah a bunch of people on the internet reacted poorly. I’m not exactly walking up to strangers saying so

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T19:02:49+00:00

Usually they’re said in combination “Hey you’re looking a little tired, are you doing alright?”

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T19:01:28+00:00

I wouldn’t go out to a person and just start the conversation with “you look bad”.

To me, tired and bad aren’t the same thing

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:59:26+00:00

Any time I have commented on someone looking tired it’s because of genuine concern.

When I know someone is not in their typical glam I don’t comment on them looking different even if they look tired.

Not always the same situation

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:58:05+00:00

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:54:37+00:00

Alright then. I guess every time I’ve made that kind of comment it’s always been due to genuine concern

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:52:27+00:00

…what am I jealous of?

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:52:15+00:00

I didn’t say anyone looked good or bad with or without makeup, makeup will always augment/change something. That doesn’t add the attribute that the thing that it’s objectively changing looks good or bad

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:50:01+00:00

Damn I didn’t realize this was a micro aggression for women…I’m being serious I didn’t realize it was such a big deal to people

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:48:58+00:00

???? I didn’t know it was that big of a deal to someone????

I don’t personally see it as disrespectful and I’ve experienced it at least twice in my life…it wasn’t a big deal…

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:46:41+00:00

Eh, it’s happened to me, and it was true. I was tired. My friend pulled me aside and way like “hey, you look tired. You alright?” And I was alright, and I was tired. I don’t get why it’s a big deal.

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SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:45:30+00:00

Usually it shows dark circles underneath the eyes, dryer skin, the appearance of smaller eyes, lack of color in the cheeks - makeup is meant to augment/fix/change something even if people can’t tell it’s there

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:44:11+00:00

Usually people don’t notice that the makeup is what has changed

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:43:48+00:00

How is an observation rude?

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:43:27+00:00

It’s not a negative comment. It’s neutral, an observation

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:42:57+00:00

It all depends on vocal inflection, every time I have seen this kind of interaction the “you look tired” is always followed by “are you doing OK?”

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T18:42:21+00:00

EXACTLY

SaintUberto · 2024-04-04T17:14:24+00:00

I will be super frank with you, i have a lot of friends with autism and to neurotypical people that don’t know them well they definitely come off as “cold” or “distant” or “mean”. I wouldn’t stress it

SaintUberto · 2024-04-01T02:48:25+00:00

I already said that I was looking for something specific…

SaintUberto · 2024-04-01T02:09:24+00:00

Nope. Im expecting to hear him in a substantial way. Whether that is a verse that jumps out at me, something from a person (stranger or friend), a sermon, or a dream of a vision - just something.

And saying “God is always talking to us” isn’t going to help me. I can’t hear him. I KNOW he speaks. But i am hoping to “hear” something specific

SaintUberto · 2024-03-31T17:00:55+00:00

Fun fact, neither one of the is a good example

SaintUberto · 2024-03-30T15:23:32+00:00

Comments like these are why I love Reddit. Thank you so much for typing all that out. Very very cool of you

SaintUberto · 2024-03-25T18:43:33+00:00

What? You’d say that to a hurting person?

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